Very scary

Question

I had a protected blow job with condom and i also fingered her vagina for few seconds a month back .
Immediately After three days i had muscle pain and fever and now i dont have fever but still have aches in my body. Becoz of scare i went to the same lady and enquired whether she is clean or not . she said she is very clean and use to go for checkup frequently and has a daughter also .

Still i have some leg pain etc .. let me know any infection occured to me or i'm clear

Teak · Answer

So you had a pimple on your penis. If you have a concern see a doctor. This is an HIV forum not pimple on the penis forum.

aby88 · Answer

i'm ok , i dont have any body aches or flu but suddenly 3 days back i had a pimple kind of thing came on my penis upper skin and it broke down today with puss , suddenly i got panic . Please comment on this..

alienshadow · Answer

your fine congrats on letting the fear go

aby88 · Answer

after getting comments from u guys today i gained guts to have physical contact with my wife. in between i was afraid but some kind of confidence came inside me.

Teak · Answer

From what you've explained, yes.

aby88 · Answer

u mean to say what ever muscle aches and pain i have it is just becoz of my anxiety and stress and i dont have any kind of infection.

aby88 · Answer

what abt the sticky thing which stuk my finger and immediately i wiped it off and washed it . is there problem with that.

i'm trying to clear my misconception, please dont misunderstand me.

alienshadow · Answer

what fingering and hiv it aint happening

Teak · Answer

I can't help what you've read on other forums. You DO NOT contract HIV from fingering.

aby88 · Answer

there are some websites abt HIV which says that infection can occure if u do fingering and muscle aches and flu are the symptoms of infection.

that is why i'm worried . some websites are really misleading

matt_1984_cambs · Answer

lol... yea... that goes without mention! [hence why I need a test... Im 50/50 whether I have it so just wanna make sure] - I'm sure [and fookin' hope] that I'm just being silly and a little bit paranoid about it, but I've got some of the symptoms - Had sex with an indonesian when travelling out there and that was in august 2005 - although i wasn't ill after and haven't got any skin problems etc... just a few months ago was ill for about a month with really swollen glands and they hurt! ...Now they still haven't gone down to normal size [still pretty big], and hurt every now and then, but 99% of the time they are fine! [also have two lumps in exactly the same position on the back of my neck on either side just below my hair line! apart from that tho I'm probably just being stupid, but hey, after having high risk sex [was so drunk and ******* stupid] with an indonesian ***** I could well have it... I'm off to get a test done later this month so fingers crossed - if it comes out negative I'm goin my girlfriends and have some wild sex [haven't had sex since the incident because was not 100% sure if have or havn't got it - but with the new girlfriend have to check and hopefully get some action!!!!!!!] yee ha!

vivhek · Answer

not frm blowjobs and handjobs but frm fuckjobs, yeah u can!!! lol. ur fine buddy

matt_1984_cambs · Answer

you don't have HIV, you can't get it through blowjobs and handjobs!

gainingknowledge · Answer

Can you tell him from where he has to learn about HIV transmission. 

That would be more clear to him, so that he can read and cool himself.

Thanks

Teak · Answer

HIV is going to be around for a long time. It is best that you learn how HIV is and is not transmitted.

aby88 · Answer

i'm a normal person and had first time encounter like this out of marriage , so i'm afraid.

only thing what was worrying me was some fluids stick my finger and i immediately wiped it off from my finger. I'm thinking that could cause any problem to me.

sorry for asking such a stupid question but what to do i'm in a very tensed situation and u can make out from my questions

Teak · Answer

It's not because of fear, it's because of your lack of knowledge.

aby88 · Answer

from that day i not having physical contact with my wife becoz of this fear.

Teak · Answer

You did NOT have a risk.

aby88 · Answer

Teak,

I could not able to understand your comment.. Please be clear .. I'm worried a bit

Teak · Answer

You really need to read up on the ways HIV can be transmitted. Clean? I sure hope so, you wouldn't want a dirty smelling woman going down on you now would you?