What are my chances?

Well you see doctor, when my ex-girlfriend and I were still dating we never had vaginal sex or anal sex. But she gave me oral sex several times. But we thought of having anal sex, infact we were suppose to do it, but since  neither of us had never done it before I didn't know exactly how to insert my penis in her ***. So the first time I tried it,  I couldn't insert it in. Neither of us by the way were HIV Positive. So my question to you is, am I at risk? I mean I only attempted the anal sex, but my penis never was inserted in at all?

[Vance2335]

How can you be at risk when you said she was not HIV positive? You have to have HIV in order to infect someone else.

[Erfdizzle]

I know it's a ridiculous question, it's just that I get scared alot because I'm a health freak, I care about my health so much. But I try not to worry as much anymore. I don't know, I guess I may of had a thought that inserting anal sex increases the chance of having HIV, even thought neither you nor the partner has it. But I never had the chance to insert it and I'm still worried. I've got to calm down.

[Vance2335]

Talk to a therpist, that may help.

[Erfdizzle]

Well thanks again for your reply. One last question though.... I broke up with my girlfriend on November 2008 and I took an HIV test on August 2009 and it came out negative. Do you think it's accurate? Everybody tells me it is. I just need to hear it from you