What's my risk?

Hi

I had sex with an American CSW overseas. We kissed very deeply, then she gave me fellatio for less than a minute unprotected, afterwards we put on a condom and had intercourse for quite sometime ..... I could not ejaculate because the condom was so thick so I took it off and she masturbated me with her saliva (she spit on her hands and did it) and eventually while masturbation she would give me fellatio briefly then continue masturbation until I ejaculated in her hands .....

I know the risk is too low, but I am just curious - not worried - about a few points

1) The inside of my lips now burns slightly due to deep kissing (always happens when I kiss deeply because my lips get stretched) and I think I also bit myself vigorously during sex ..... I flipped it in front of a mirror ... there is no blood .... nothing ..... just there is a horizontal indentation where I bit myself .... am I at risk due to deep kissing and self-biting? I have no oral sores, blisters or cuts .......

2) When I took off the condom, my penis was very wet. Could it be that it was broken (I did not check but it seemed intact) .... Could it be her saliva from before the intercourse (but how come it did not dry?), lube from the condom, or my pre-cum (but it was too much to be precum). Could I have been exposed, or am I plainly paranoid? At the beginning of intercourse I heard something and thought the condom popped, but I pulled out immediately and checked and it was all fine ..... Could it have popped but with only a very small and unnoticeable cut?

3)  During intercourse she and I kept checking if the condom was on and it was on (I think this answers #2 since a small cut would've gotten bigger from the friction and thrusting) .... but one time it was slightly slipped so about an inch from the root of my penis was exposed .... I have no cuts there, ulcers, scratches or sores ..... Is the root of the penis considered skin (and hence a great barrier) or is it a mucus membrane?

4) I am circumcised ..... What is my risk for the oral sex and saliva-lubed hand job she gave me? (considering it was very brief)

5) How long does HIV live on intact, dry skin? I touched the condom few times when my penis slipped out of her vagina and it was covered with her secretions ..... On my way home I found a very small cut (tenth of an inch .... that type of a cut you get from the extra skin on the sides of the fingernail or while putting your hand in your pants pocket)  ..... I am sure it did not directly touch the secretions which I touched with the soles of my hand/fingers ..... Considering I washed my hands with soap and water right after we finished

6) Last but not least, does the above situation warrant testing (I myself believe not) .... Just looking for second opinion ....

[SafeSexAlways]

One more thing regarding point #1, I had a sore throat for more than a week before the encounter and was - and is still - on antibiotics to relieve it ... Does a sore throat increase a chance of contracting a disease while kissing?

[sonic91]

1. Deep kissing cannot transmit HIV, with or without a cut in the mouth.

2. I have heard and myself experience moist/wet penis after condom use..this can by due to sweat, precum or oils from the condom. it is unlikely a hole in the condom would have not caused it to break, but not impossible.

3. The root of the penis is a great barrier, only the head needs to be fully protected when it comes to HIV.

4.circumsised men have been proven by some studies to actually have 50% less chance of contracting HIV then other men..take a look.
men.http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1848024,00.html

5.HIV can never be transmitted outside the body, exept in a needle.

6. No not urgently, but it never harms to know for sure, at least for your own peace of mind. good luck.

[SafeSexAlways]

Thanks .... quiet relieving .....

I remembered one more thing about point #2 ..... During intercourse we both took a break and during the break she masturbated me with the condom on vigorously .... I guess a cut condom would've gotten torn apart or at least she would've noticed .....

So ... again .... the situation does not warrant testing .... you've said it's for my peace of mind ...... so if I am not even worried, no need to test ..... right?

Thanks man

[SafeSexAlways]

just need a confirmation for my question #6 .... Does this encounter warrant testing if I am not worried?

[sonic91]

there is no law that says you have to test when you have a worry.

it doesnt sound like you need a test as you had no proof the condom failed.

However if you are worried or pro active about your health you will test to be doubley sure, it can't hurt.

It doesn't need testing as you were PROBABLY not exposed, but then again the decision to test will always be your own so make a judgement and i'm sure you will be fine.

[SafeSexAlways]

Thanks sonic91 and everyone :)