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Worried on exposure

I had visited a CSW in South Afrcia and had received oral sex from her. I also had protected vaginal sex. Now exactly three weeks later, i have swollen lymph nodes on the neck ( two on my left side under the jaw) and one on the right under my jaw, all around 7 mm in diameter. Also I have sore throat for a week ( no pain, only extreme irritation). I also have a mouth sore ( canker sore) thats been around for two weeks. Im pretty certain Im on my way to being HIV positive. Is there anyway I will be HIV negative?
I have a wife and child and I can't sleep or do anything. Im really troubled.
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You have plenty of hope--you will be negative.
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and also sever joint pain and muscle aches. i also had heat blisters on my head. and today , apart from the six swollen nodes on my neck, the node above my collar bone too is swollen. that's why im travelling. im destroyed im sure. this is no drama lizzy Lou. i can barely make it to the airport. all i can do is keep re reading ur posts.
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guys you can say that. my exposure was in Africa. not in usa . all medhelo experts are talking in context to developed countries. and my symptoms are clear indicators. lymph nodes, sore throat,diarrhea, mouth ulcer, head ache . anyways im thankful to all for helping me. ill be taking the plane in a couple of hours, with no hope.
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186166 tn?1385259382
TAKE IT ELSEWHERE ! ! !

YOU NEVER HAD A RISK FOR CONTRACTING HIV.

ANY "SYMPTOMS" YOU ARE HAVING ARE NOT HIV RELATED.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...THIS FORUM HAS NOTHING LEFT TO OFFER YOU.
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2135035 tn?1345463035
Friend you are thinking too much , you never had any exposure .!
You used protection .!
I was in your shoes some months back i know how it feels , but at the same time i did not used protection and i was sick for 4 months still i am having some issues , but i have found my illness, so will you.!

The end of the story is that you are Hiv -ve .!
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i didn't mean any offence sir. im just completely devastated and destroyed. i think you didn't read all my symptoms. today the lymph nodes above my collar bone are swollen. im desperate.
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2135035 tn?1345463035
sorry for wrong post i meant you are Hiv -ve ..!

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV .! It was typed by mistake.
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2135035 tn?1345463035
Friend you are Hiv +ve ok..

And you know why you had symptoms because their are 1000's of disease , to which our body reacts with some common symptoms to them like swollen nodes, fever, night sweats etc ..

So rather than just thinking about Hiv consult your doctor for your health issues.!
All the best.
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Enough with the drama--first of all you will be negative and secondly HIV is a chronic illness now not a death sentence so stop with the stupid remarks about killing yourself--that's just silly.Have you heard of ARV therapy--well it works.
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186166 tn?1385259382
don't come here speaking of suicide...it's very disrespectful to those here who either have hiv / aids or have a loved one who does.
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sir teak, im travelling tonite to my country for a test. you will know tomorrow evening if im positive or not. if i am, i.will kill myself. pray for me sir teak. you have stood with me
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Move on.
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Dear Sir, i went to the doctor. he is telling me that these are definitely ars symptoms since i had no other illness. he says all my symptoms came at once and disappeared exactly like ars symptoms. and because its in the window period and since there was no other viral infection and also because i had an exposure, he says i must do a test. also he says my sore throat appeared to be severe the way i described it, just like hiv sore throat. he rules out mono and is very much concerned if i have caught hiv.now im very worried.
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See your doctor for your symptoms they are not related to HIV.
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Thank you sir Teak. You are doing such a great job and being such a relief to so many people in this world.
I do comprehend sir. But how come i have these symptoms from no where? Thats my worry.
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It isn't that we are misunderstand you in so much you aren't comprehending what we are telling you. You do not have an HIV concern.
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Sirs, dont misunderstand me. Im don't mean any dis respect.
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You don't have an HIV concern.
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Sir, don't be pissed. and don't write me off. I have been having nightmares thinking Ive had those symptoms. All of them. Sore Throat, Lymph nodes swollen, mouth ulcer, dysentry and joint pains. I believe you that oral sex carries no risk. DO you think my condom protected sex would have failed?
If no, then sir, why these symptoms? Ive never experienced them before. I read your posts regularly and have great respects for you. And hearing from you is such a relief. Im so scared and haven't had sex with my wife as yet.
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Dear Sir Teak, Im so sorry for posting like this. I do not have internet access all the time. I can check only once in ten days. Sir, the sore throat I felt was something strange and for the first time. And at that time I had a canker sore and dysentry. Thats why I was worried since every website said that sore throat is a symptom  of HIV infection. Im so sorry. I apologize and I'm very sorry.
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Dear Teak,
Im getting scared with this guy telling me things. Sir, I had dysentry \(4 times), sore throat, enlarged lymph node as i said (as hard as a stone) and of course, a canker sore. Sorry for asking again. Are you sure sir that Im safe or is it that something went wrong? She had deep throated me
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OK,sorry
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Don't recommend anything to anyone. You don't have a background education and your information is incorrect.
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