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abstinence is the way to go people

I'm convinced of this, the stress that comes with sex isn't worth it, I may have been perfectly healthy before, but my blood pressure was high as hell cuz of this ****. Either don't have sex or know the person your with. I've read things on this site that I didn't know anyone in their right mind would do. Some guy had unprotected sex with a prostitute, and then has the nerves to ask if he has an std.

I'm in the abstinence lifestyle from here on, who's with me?
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A wise man once said, it is our choices that make us who we are.  

Spider Man III 20007


Really folks, I want to have a total STD check up....   In just 10 days I will get to start my testing oddesy.  I too want the family dream...  the happy marriage etc...  but I like you folks are stuck in this rut.


So we really have to swear off sex even with a condom?  I think I do just because of the stinking anxiety of it all.

I had protected vaginal/anal sex, but for some reason I think something malfunctioned....   She also gave me un protected oral....   and things have not been normal since. I am not sure what to attribute this to.  I have already taken the antibiotics required for Chalmydia, and Ghonorea....  Syphillis and Herpes should have showed up by now.   Right now I got bladder discomfort and slight testicle discomfort, with sometimes mild burning when I pee. No discharge thus far. When I look at my wanger, he is like a scared turtle....  Much like his master. Frustrating as ever. Heck no pun intended, but it could be all in my head.


Stinking hormones....
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202447 tn?1275092036
lol im down for it. havent had sex for almost 5 months, january 16th my exposure, and dont plan on doing it til i get married lol
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bigdummy,  

I am one of those idiots.  I had not been sexually active for over three years until I went on vacation Feb 07 with a buddy.  Just as I let my guard down, I realized from this trip that I am responsible for myself. The main people who urge me when I am highly drunk do not have my back. I view the world in a total different way. No more nice person.  Boy was I pissed for a while.  However, thank Heaven I have continue to test negative after 14 weeks, but the stress and symptoms are wearing me out.  I want to get married and I want kids some day.  However, I feel this is vaporating because of my lack of judgement.  My faith is what is keeping me going.  I'm not religious but I do have a strong faith.  I will keep you all in my Prayers.
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It is easy to say hard to do.  But I will give it a shot
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