am dieng..PLZ i want to hear from all of u....

[sadmark]

hii..
am writing u now and i feel sooooo sad and my b cry..
am sooo worried...
i have many previous experiences in my life show me how am unlucky guy!
in my study all ppl was succeed and me only who get fail!
and many other situations,,,

AM afraid same happen to me with HIV...

am 28 yr male...
i had Unprotected oral about 4 times...females was sucking me..
2 of them was b4 i get my semen,,
other 2 was after i finish so my penis is sleeping..

i remember i licked one of them too unprotected..:(

i had 2 time protected vaginal...(i remember that i saw my semen in the condom after i finished so it didn't break..

all this was about 1 yr b4 i have no health problems..
i was living normal life..
BUT it changed when i began to surf the web about HIV...
an i heard on of females was infected...

plz plz plz..i need to hear of u all..and especially of ppl was in my status who deal with poz females...and got tested..

HOW risky am??
i can't go to test,.,,am soooo afraid....
plz help...

[ExtremeStress]

I can read and write in english. i do have the mental capability to understand. I know you got your PP sucked. Look all the way to the top. When I say look at my previous post, it means the post before. you were asking about my last post so I said check out my previous post, which means the one before the one in question. You just need to quit posting. you obviously can't speak english well, you definitely don't understand, and you didn't have a risk. I will put it into simple terms for you. YOU     ARE      CRAZY!     GO     GET      TESTED       TO      GET    RID    OF     ANY     FEAR!!!!!       GOODBYE.

[sadmark]

PLZ answer me...

i hear saliva has HIV but in small amount..and un infected salvia render it..
So that i think it is normal not to b infected through mouth..cuz ur saliva will protect u..

So that am asking about cells in pennis..

[sadmark]

ur previous post talk about chance of infecting through kissing...
but now am asking u if u have practical excperince of being sucked through POZ girl...

plz don't b agressive like that...

[ExtremeStress]

If you look at my previous post, you can see I know what you are talking about. I referenced saliva to your incident because you won't get infected by it. I won't answer more questions from you until you either understand english or move on and get tested, because of your fear.

[sadmark]

I ask this not cuz of kiss..

i ask cuz it may infect me when salvia touch my pennis skin which include cells can b infected...

Did she suck u too?
i don't think?

[ExtremeStress]

It won't infect you through saliva. I kissed a girl with HIV many of times for many of years and never got infectd. you need to move on. You won't get infected that way. you are also not going to hear any other advice about this. Everyone on here is going to tell you the same thing. You need to test, only because you are so fearful, not because you are infected.

[sadmark]

my mother tongue is not english at all...

So that is great i can understand u here and same u do...

BUT tell me..
y there is conflict between sites about Salvia has HIV and others say NOO..

if it has how likley it can infect pennis?

[ExtremeStress]

you chances of getting HIV are as good as you getting a Job as an english teacher. NO WAY POSSIBLE

[sadmark]

no at all...

[lantongblack]

sadmark, by any chance u related to scaredmark?

[sadmark]

if they r true..
i think they usually say there is spacial cases..like bleeding gum!

then we should belive them...
or what do u think?

[Teak]

Read the forum, everyone thinks they were infected by oral sex. Oral sex is not a risk.

[sadmark]

u heared someone infected through oralsex?

[Teak]

Hear it all the time. But oral sex is not a risk for HIV.

[sadmark]

then what i have is punishing myself..!
hope it b over soon...

had u hear about someone infected through oral?..

[Teak]

I wouldn't be calling any of those females dirty. Take a look in the mirror before you start labeling people. Move on, you didn't have a risk.

[sadmark]

i tried to do what u told me about...
BUT it is really sooooo hard..
that when i remmber this dirty females..i don't know how i was thinking at this days??

i feel that something diffrent than usuall will happen in my case to transfer to me infection! through her tongue or her saliva...
i don't know what to do..plz help me...

[sadmark]

thank you teak..
i'll move on my life..
BUT it might take period of time...

hope it go quickly!

[Teak]

What part of you didn't have a risk is it you don't understand? You didn't have a risk and don't need to test. There are not hidden holes in condoms. When a condom fails it does so catastrophically so. You would look like you had a grass skirt on your penis if it had failed. Yours didn't fail so there was no risk.

[sadmark]

THANK U..
but both easly transfer through oral sex?
i mean from female to male during sucking him?

PLZ answer breifly my qu;...
1-do i need to test?must?
2-if i tested..how much it can b NEG?
3-in protected vaginal...when i c my semen collected in the top of condom..that refer it was safe intercourse?or it can b hidden holes?

thank u

[Teak]

You are kidding, right? Yes there are diseases that can take longer than 90 days.

Hepatitis B
The incubation period for Hepatitis B is usually 45-180 days, with an average of 60 to 90 days.

Hepatitis C
The incubation period for Hepatitis C ranges from 2 weeks to 6 months - commonly, 6 to 9 weeks.

Those are just a couple.

[sadmark]

YES,,,
but i read in post here b4 i can't get it now..
that there is disease has window period for 90 days??

PLZ answer breifly my qu;...

Thank you

[Teak]

Do you know what theoretical risk means? Contracting oral STDs is NOT theoretical. It happens all the time.

[sadmark]

thank you for ur support to me...
but i have final silly qu;?

1-do i need to test?must?
2-if i tested..how much it can b NEG?
3-in protected vaginal...when i c my semen collected in the top of condom..that refer it was safe intercourse?or it can b hidden holes?

4-what is the disease which can transmit through oral to my penis and its window period is 90 days?

thank u again