am i at risk? plz help,

last week i met a girl and we went to my home. we had no condom so i didn't intend for vaginal/anal sex. she only laid on her belly with closed legs and i inserted my penis between her thighs and rubbed there. i didn't climax. in fact i didn't intend to penetrate her vagina nor anus. and i think i didn't penetrate her. but now when i think about that day i am afraid if i penetrated her without knowing it or remembering it. i even asked her many times and she told me many times that i did NOT penetrate her. but can i trust her? i am damned confused and don't know what to do. what would you do if you were in my situation? forget it or get tested in 12 weeks? i can not wait 12 weeks!

[kumar007]

forget it..whatever you described dont put u at any risk..zero risk i should say..
no penetration=no risk..
if u penetrated, you and she would have definitely known..
do you can forget about hiv

[gij2010]

thank you kumar. at that moment i was not worried because i did NOT want to penetrate her. but after some days i say to myself: what if i penetrated her without remembering it? but i know that penetration is not possible without intention and without pressing against anus or vagina.
anyway, so can i start having unprotected sex with my wife? what is your suggestion?

[kumar007]

yes you can..dont worry