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anxious & scared

Helo people here.. i would like to ask some question here. I know my sex activity maybe would not put me on a high risk of hiv infection, but i have this 'scary' question to ask. I went to this csw place at her room where the light was so dim. She put me on with a condom & do the handjob & oral sex to me. What bothering me is what if she use a reuse condom from previous customer who maybe have hiv & other std to me? What are my risk here? Could i be infected by using a condom that has been use before by hiv person to me? I really feel scared now becoz i have a girlfriend & i dont want to infect her?  Please help me :'(
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I guess just one to be sure is just get tested. Thank you all for your comments. Hopefully my result will be Negative when I test next week. By the way, is it better to be tested by just HIV antibody test or the Elisa test?
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You do not have an HIV concern.
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Wow.. Didnt expect this. I was away for 2month & thinking like what you all moderator have told me before. I live my normal life back. It's just this new scenario happening that make me think to ask your expert answer here. I didnt tell yet that I have a rash around ny neck, coughing a bit, some small pimples alike my arm & 'below there'. Please dont ban me for this. Maybe I should think of going for an HIV test i gess
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* Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusively negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusively negative results or a no-risk situation will be based upon the criteria established by MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
    * After excessive posting, a warning will be issued by MedHelp
    * Continuing to post regarding the negative result / no risk situation will result in a 3 day suspension
    * Continuing to post upon your return will result in a permanent ban.
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Hello there.. I'm in my 11week post exposure & I've been having really bad fever, sorethroat & a really2 bad headache for the last 3days. I could not think about anthing else except for my stupid behaviour last 2month. Could it be that I've been infected by HIV? Please help me clarify on this..
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As you were told you did not have an exposure.
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you had no risk and you can have unprotected sex with your GF.
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So should i not have to worry anymore? Do i need to test for HIV & STD? Can I have sex with my girlfriend again after my silly incident?
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There is no way possible to take a condom off and put it back on without being exposed to air or any of the other obstacles.
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Last question hopefully.. So is it applied too if the semen was in intact condition inside the condom, not expose to the air & accidentally i'm wearing it?
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HIV is a fragile virus and does not stay active outside it's host. Once exposed to air, PH change and/or temperature change it becomes inactive.
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Thanks Teak, but can you please answer it in more detail why the semen in the condom could not infect me (assuming this was real). Why is it No Risk?
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No risk..
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Is it No Risk for the (if) reused condom too?
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First of all are you sure she re-use a condom? Very unlikely. Anyways hand job and oral sex is no HIV risk.
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No risk.
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Can you please answer me nurseqirl. I see that you are working in this health environment & i do hope you can give your point of view here from my concern
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You mean No Risk becoz of the sexual act or becoz of the condom reused part? Please help me others moderators :'(
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I would say No risk.
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So how would you put me on scale? Is it No Risk, Low risk or High Risk? Should i go for hiv & std test?
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There are plenty of CSW that won't make you wear a condom and some will charge you more for it.The service is known as the ''natural'' service.It's becoming more common.You should always provide your own just in case.
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What do you mean by no exposure? Is using a reuse condom from previous customer who have a hiv semen in it, or the sex activity, the handjob & oral?
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I hope you were right. But just a worst case scenario here. what if she use the reused one? What is the possibility there? Can someone be infected from using a condom which have a hiv positive semen in a condom? Could me get infectex with hiv? It happen so fast & the room was so dark. Please help me
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