condom slip off when pulling out

[Ed1985]

hello I just had an encounter with a female which I end up having unprotected oral sex but we end up having protected sex at the end when I have finished she was on top and when she came off of me the condom came off alone with her so half the condom was inside and the other half was outside dripping all my sperm out what are the chances of me catching anything most likely HIV if it's possible when the condom slip off

[RubyWitch]

You're welcome. It's always a good idea for you or your partner to hold the base of the condom while withdrawing.
Always play safe!

[Ed1985]

hello again sorry to bother you one more time but I was wondering about the oral sex that I had unprotected to myself I didn't have any Cuts or sores or ranches at all in my private part wend oral sex was performedand the other partner not a hundred percent sure but I think that she didn't have anything either..

[AnxiousNoMore]

You can have open bleeding cuts and won't get HIV from oral because either air or saliva will effectively kill it instantly.

[Ed1985]

Thank for the answer AnxiousNoMore..and thanks for taking the time to answer my question I really appreciate it

[Ed1985]

hello again I was wondering if I should get test or not but I'm not too worried about it because all the research and answers that I have cotton are good news and there's nothing to worry about but I don't know if I should get tested or not..I'm constantly yawning but I'm assuming that's because I haven't got a good sleep for the past 2 days because of thinking and stressing out too much..

[AnxiousNoMore]

You can't test for 28 days so you need to try to relax until then and hopefully won't be worried anyway by then. The first step is to stop researching, because all you need to know has already been explained here, so further hunting on the internet will just make you more fearful and can't possible relax you.

[Ed1985]

Ok. I will do that.  Thanks for your help..

[Ed1985]

AnxiousNoMore & RubyWitch, Hello again it have been 47 day since the encounter I was wondering if it would be already too late for any kind of symptoms to show up by now I know that you cant determine at by some symptoms... because I have decided not to take the test just for the sole reason that I haven't seen any changes on me since the day besides the only Problem I half and I have to work on i have really low vitamin D have really high cholesterol and I'm overweight for my height so I guess I should focus on that.. but I just wanted to come back and tell you how much I appreciate your words of wisdom and help I wish  both of y'all the best..thank you...

[RubyWitch]

If half the condom remained inside the woman, you had absolutely no risk. Any seamen that came out of the condom had been exposed to air and was rendered inactive. (Unable to infect)
NO WORRIES

[Ed1985]

RubyWitch I appreciate your quick response to my worries thanks for being a help.

[Sara_MHModerator]

We are glad you tested negative.  As our members have stated, this was expected as they advised you that you never had a risk.  We wish you the best and are closing this discussion.

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[helpneed1]

if you tensed about your exposure so go get tested just one time for your peace of mind and any test at this time will fully conclusive...and i am pretty sure your test result will be negative because you don't have exposure you had protected sex and protected sex is not any risk..and i encourage you take protection every time you had sex with unknown states person.

[Ed1985]

Thanks helpneed1... you right having a piece of mind would be more a lot better thanks for your response..

[Ed1985]

I got tested 10 weeks n 3 days n my test came back negative... I'm so happy.. I don't need a any more testing at 12 weeks??

[AnxiousNoMore]

You were advised that you had no risk so there can't be any HIV. So the test was a placebo to make you feel secure. Now that the test is over, it is time to move on from HIV so if you are still worrying then talk it over with a doctor or a therapist.