crazy?

hi,
had protected sex but received unprotected blow job from a female escort. tested at 34 days after exposure which came back negative for stds and hiv. had sickness, diaheria, tiredness, fever, sore throat and keep getting dull aches in armpit. i tried to move on after my test but now my girlfriend has sore throat, a small red mark on her chest and has mouth ulcers. i am freaking out and worried. do most people test positive by 34 days? going back for 84 day test in 3 weeks. its got to the point now were i think i'm infected and passed it on to her.
please help, thanks

[alienshadow]

you dont have hiv from a blow job a 34 day test being negative means you are in the 80 to 85 percent range you dont have hiv

[Teak]

Only in your dreams. You did not have a risk period. Move on.

[dozz]

thanks. i was fine until my girlfriend told me this. just really want to get to 84 day results out of the way and move on. maybe you can answer this, is it true that if you have a possible risk, then test and don't catch any std then it makes the chance of catching hiv even less? or is rubbish?

[dozz]

sorry, one more, i didn't ejaculate inside her, took condom off and did it over her chest. thats not risky is it?

[alienshadow]

nope dont test if thats the only risk you had

[dozz]

received unprotected blow job then had protected sex for 10 mins max and then took condom off and ejaculated on her chest, sorry that i didn't explain that properly.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk. Move on.

[alienshadow]

like we are telling you move on

[dozz]

thanks guys. i just can't stop thinking what if condom failed and i didn't notice! on the other hand i'm at low risk,  i've already had a 34 day negative test which puts me 80-85% in the clear & i did use protection. even spoke to the escort and she said shes clear of all stds & hiv, but can you trust someone you've met once, don't think so. i  won't be my normal self until the 3 month test is out of the way.

[alienshadow]

thats your choice not ours you asked for an answer you got it accept it and move on

                 PEACE

[dozz]

thanks for your help.