cunnilingus in massage parlour

[ray786]

Hi
6 weeks ago ...was drunk...Went to a massage parlour in hong kong ( her hiv status is unknown) ....got massage by a chinese woman from china in the parlour..no sex..but gave unprotected cunnilingus for 5-7 mins...i could taste her fluid and immidiately stopped and spat.

while massaging my upper thighs from behind she by mistake scratched me between the thighs n balls ( the webbing) which is not healing and everytime i scratch i see blood stain ( 1 and a half inch scratch) ..I have dry skin issues for a year now........also the scratch is in such a place that it is always in motion because of walking, the webbing moves as well.....it was a stupid thing because i was drunk...i hv never had sex with any other women after marrige (intercourse) ....this thing is making me guilty to death...a week after this exposure I got cold and throat infection and was on antibiotics for a week and i became ok ( happened during flu season of may) i got nervous that i might be infected and thus i went for a hiv and std check up after 2 weeks which came negative....i felt better...then  i read that a 3 month check is more accurate...I am tensed again and went into severe depression due to this ...cant get it out of my head....its been 6 weeks but i feel fatigue sometimes ( maybe when i think too much about it) ...i havent had any fever yet....no swollen lymphs, no rashes.........I had a food allergy and got a canker sore in the mouth but healed in 3 days after applying ointment....everytime i think about it, i feel weak, anxiety, depressed, loss of appetite..a little sneeze or cough scares me..........last 2 weeks i was feeling very good then i got a body pain for a day and i got all nervous...how do I cope up with this........i love my family and am not a womaniser.....i regret this episode and want to move on but the guilt is killing me whether I am ok or no........please advise what should i do...a lot of people have been getting flu and body aches in this horrible hot and humid weather...i hope it is a coincidence and not related....THANKS

[ray786]

Sorry for the trouble......God bless you and many thanks

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[ray786]

i know a 3 month period is not easy to wait in anxiety...what is the earliest I can go for a check up again....2 weeks negative test has been done.....I had gone for a 2 week check coz i had developed flu which cleared by anitbiotics...

[ray786]

Thanks a ton...mentally, it really helps....God bless you.....but just to cool of my anxiety for good, Do I still need to go get checked > I know u mentioned I shouldnt but just for peace of mind ?

[Teak]

Have no idea, but you do not have an HIV concern.

[ray786]

sorry just wanted to add...after giving her cunnilingus, the taste of her ***** was in my mouth for an entire day.....felt kinda **** when i got sober....is it normal..even after brushing, i could get that whiff and taste....everytime i blew the air out of my mouth i could smell it............i think more of Smell than taste....reason ?

[Teak]

You do not need any HIV testing.

[ray786]

sorry for the mistype...i meant there are people who screw left right and centre without any guilt

[ray786]

Thanks Sir, really appreciate it.........How do I get it off my head? there are people who scare left right and centre without and guilt and I am getting freaked out from this episode which was not even sex.........when i m busy and around people i dont think about it....when i m alone..i go crazy.....Do I need a test at 3 month mark? mentally this has drained me alot...I didnt eat properly for a week and was losing weight due to depression.....i havent had fever in these entire 6 weeks but fatigue and body pain ....is it due to anxiety?

I know I am probably millions of those who ask the same question all the time but its just that when it happens to u  , u tend to go insane....

[Teak]

No a scratch is not a risk of HIV transmission.

[ray786]

thanks for the reply...what about the nail scratch ? wasnt just an ordinary scratch.....it still irritates...the scratched area is not swollen, neither it hurts, no visible infection...just when it itches and i scratch, the cut opens and can see blood stains........can a deep scratch be dangerous from her ?

[Teak]

You never had a risk from cunnilingus.