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do i really have hiv???

i had an exposure in june and after two weeks, i had symtoms like diearea, fever, pain in my lungs, flu and sweelling tongues but i had been to many labouratories for test and all had been negatives..... but this woamn said she have hiv... even at this 15 december which made it 7 months, i had been in another test but still negative... please doctor, can one have it and not showing in his blood??? when can i be tested and be rest assured that i dont have it like they always tells me by labouratory owners??? please i need your answer urgent.. thanxx justice...
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what do i need to be tested for please??? thanxx..
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You don't have HIV. Whatever is going on with your tongue has nothing to do with HIV. If you trouble moving on seek professional mental help to deal with your fobias.
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ok... thanxx.. but in this forum, have you had a case of hiv positive after 1 year??? can one test negative in six months and turns positive after 1 year?? because this woman said she had hiv which i am sure she did... and what really convince me that i had gotten it from her was when i met another woman after recently and she complained of having urine infection after few i week and few days.... then i went straight to labouratory and made another test and it was still negative... honestly i was confussed.. even uptill now im still having redish spot tongues... please what can i do?? i am afraid to make love even to my fiance.... can one have hiv and his body not produccing it??? thanxx..
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186166 tn?1385259382
PSYCHOSOMATIC:   of, relating to, involving, or concerned with bodily symptoms caused by mental or emotional disturbance

INTERPRETATION:   it's all in your mind

if you will read this forum...you will see that pretty much EVERYONE has "symptoms" and they are "sure" they have hiv.  the mind is a powerful thing...and it can actually produce the physical symptoms you may be experiencing.  

after being on this forum for almost two years...what i have found is that when you are able to ACCEPT your negative status...when you can ACCEPT that you dont have hiv...when you can ACCEPT the FACTS regarding transmission and testing...THEN your symptoms will magically disappear.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.  TIME TO PUT THIS OUT OF YOUR MIND...ACCEPT THE FACTS...AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

if you are not able to do this on your own...then you might want to consider seeking help from a mental health professional to work through this.  there's nothing more that we can do for you on this forum.  you do NOT have a hiv concern.

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hi, good morning, how are you today?, hope you are doing good? thankx for all your efforts in answering my post.... i am very glad to be here... i had almost died of tension... please do you mean that all the symtoms i had are cancer symtomps too??? please reply me now....
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Symptoms are really meaningless. I bet you have had "symptoms" of cancer too. Does that mean you have cancer...no. Symptoms can be many things or nothing at all. Just because I got the flu after having unprotected sex doesn't mean I have HIV.

Read Lizzie Lou's first post for the answer to your last question.
I also believe in God and Jesus but this is not the place to go into a discussion on what they can do and what they don't do. But take comfort in that you don't have HIV if you want to thank God (which you should) then that is up to you.
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what about  all the symtoms i had??? what can you say about them??? or is it because of all the preyers i did with many pastors that saved me??? she said she have hiv....
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186166 tn?1385259382
your test is RELIABLE and CONCLUSIVE ! ! !

you do NOT have hiv and do NOT require further testing.
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so by 6 months result now, will you say i am free from this virus even after all the symtoms i had??? or do i have to repeat the test by 1 year??? thanxx..
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Stay in your own thread you were told to do that yesterday.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you do NOT have hiv.

even if the woman had hiv and you had unprotected sex with her...it does NOT mean automatic infection.
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