. I asked her if she was clean and she said she was and she gets tested every 6 months. All nite I have not been able to sleep because I am worried her perfoming oral on me without me wearing a condom will get me something. I am also worried if I would get something since I am not sure if I used a condom right. What are my risks for me contracting an STD if she perfomed oral without protection and if the condom almost slipped off?
Oral sex is not a risk of HIV but you could have contracted an STD. You had protected sex even if the condom slipped so HIV is not an issue. See your doctor or go to an STD clinic.
The only real STD risk from receiving unprotected oral is possible HSV1, but if you're like most people, you probably already have it orally. If you get cold sores, the chances of you getting it genitally are pretty much nil. You could go get a herpeselect blood test now, and if it's positive, you'll know you didn't get it from this encounter. If it's negative, you could test again in a couple of months if you're really freaked out (and it sounds like you are). Personally, I think there's no need to test for anything unless you actually develop symptoms. Relax. You had sex. You took reasonable protections. I know that first times can feel scary, but you did everything right. No need to spin out of control :-)
Thank you so much guys for answering my questions! Everyone at work was telling me today not to worry about it.
I just got really paranoid since she performed oral without me having a condom on and I was worried she could have gave me an STD. I do not feel any symtoms (symptoms) so I won't go get tested yet since maybe I am over reacting.
I also had vaginal sex with her and the condom was on it almost slipped off but I caught it and basically some of her "juices" just ran down to the base of my penis so that I don't need to worry about right?
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**I was really worried today because I saw a pimple with a whiteish head on my scrotum today and I was freaking out but I realized I have had it before and it seems to be nothing more than a ingrown hair that got infected so no worries right/