fingering and Protected oral sex - HIV exposure ?

Hi Doctor,

Sorry for asking the same kind of questions again, that I have read in this forum before. I am really very upset on my act and somehow not able to convince my self that I have had a low risk exposure to HIV and other STDs. Thanks for your patience in advance. Here is the background. I went to a massage parlour in Glasgow on March 22nd 2008.
The Girl massaged my back with some baby oil (she said ). It is to note that she was with another man in the massage room before my turn. Then she put a condom on my penis and gave me oral sex. I massaged her vagina/anus from outside ( did not insert ). The Vagina was very wet. The finger I used for massaging had a minor cut (clear broken skin) It neither was irritating nor painful and ofcourse was not bleeding (guess got it the previous day from a knife cut). After I finished, she took the condom off and gave me a wet tissue paper to clean myself. I wiped my penis and then my left hand fingers that I used to massage her.I had mouth ulcer on my lower lip at that time, not sure if it is of any significance here, but did not involve in any kissing at all.
It is almost 2 months now. I did not get any fever or loose stools in this period. I did get a few rashes on my shoulders, hands and chest. I have had skin problems in the past and some of my friends say am a constant worrier. There was no infection at the spot on the fingers where I had a cut. It actually healed in next couple of days after the incident. I had a couple of mouth ulcers again after the incident ( inside the mouth ).I have never had sex of any sort before this.

The following are my questions, assuming that she is infected.

1) What are the chances that I have been exposed to HIV?

2) Can vaginal fluids on a finger with a cut, transmit the virus?

3) What is the posibility that I could have acquired other STD's ?

4) Can the wet tissue paper transmit HIV, if she had used the same to clean herself up?

5) When should I get tested?

[snippets69]

1) Zero
2) Theoretically, yes...Realistically, no
3) Zero
4) No...This is almost a silly question in this day and age.
5) You don't need to test for this incident

[IK78683]

Thanks for your positive words . My practitioner told me the same. I was worried as I had some symptoms. As I mentioned I had some rashes on the body. ( I have never had like that before ). May be because of anxiety. The white on my toungue also looked clustered and raised at some spots from a couple of days. I am just 25 and this is kind of my first experience of sex. So every little sneeze and pain just reminds me of this eventhough all odds are in my favour.Therefore I am like teriified on my insane act. But again thanks for your inputs. I deeply appreciate that.

[PAZIG]

No you do not need testing, and my advice is to stay off the internet and do not Look for reasons to become anxious about this, you spoke to your practioner and a good forum here who all said NO and move on, Please do so

[jacks1175]

hi
i was just going thru one ques n answr here.
i am very worried. now this is wat happnd with me..
i went to a prostitute and while i was going thr i had this thing in mind tht sumthng(a small mettalic piece) got instrtd in the nail (upper portion of finger) of my index finger a day bfr n thr was a cut inside thr. so planned tht i will use my middle finger for inserting etc. i went thr had protected sex n inserted my middle finger inside her anus once for abt 5-10 seconds(quite deep). aftr i retrnd back hm i was sitting n watching tv wen all of a sudden i thought of checking my middle finger. n thts the time wen i realisd tht it was the middle finger whr tht small mettalic piece got insrtd. i pulled back the upper portion of my middle finger to check the area between skin n nail, n thr was blood. (most probably dry blood frm ystrday's wound) n thr was little pain when i pulled the skin up tightly. so i guess the small cut created by the tiny mettalic piece must still b thr. now i am very worried :(..
pls tell me wat to do ? wat r the chances tht i might hav contractd HIV if tht prositute was HIV positive ?
tks in advance

[Teak]

You do nothing. You were never at risk.

[jacks1175]

hi teak,
oh so u were talkng abt msg here. sorry for typing at two diffrnt places but aftr i sent it here i realisd tht i can ask my question as an entirely new one.

meanwhile, the main thing is tht thr is a cut in the finger i instrd n its between nail n the finger skin.. n wen i pulled back ths skin little bit thr ws blood too