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So about 11 days ago I had sec with a hooker. Used protection but towards the middle became limp and had to hold the condom on while I slowly pent rated her getting hard again. When that happened I think some vaginal fluids came into contact as I rolled the condom back on my pens as it became hard again. 2 days letter I noticed brown flat spots on my penis. And broke out in a bad case of follicuitittis all over my torso. I was told that u can't get hiv  from protected sex. So I had sex with another hooker 8 days later this time the condom broke and had unprotected sex for a few minutes. Then I also gave her oral vaginal sex.

After first incident I had the spots but Googled and figured they were moles. Cause they were flat and brown.  And weren't bothersome at all. Like small freckles. Thought maybe clogged pore or something. Or a mole collection of dead skin cells. So I had got follicittis and was feeling a bit hot and sweaty  more than usual but I just had a small but with the flu prior to first encounter. But never really felt 100% well directly 2 days after 1st incident. Then 2 days after my 2nd incident been feeling real nautious and having unusable bowel movements and killer headaches. Seemed like it almost blended from the first incident. So isn't protected sec safe from hiv.  And my symptoms could they be ars. I'm driving myself crazy here. Also I have a drinking problem thathat is out of control, which usually makes me feel very lonely and permiscuios. And am currently staying were there is an abundance of hookers. Not a good mix.not proud but would appreciate  some info.
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28 days after broken condom-DUO test or 8 week antibody test.
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well I am happy to say that I got my results of my 4th gen test. Both came back negative. also most my symptoms went away after I stopped worrying.
Just though i'd give you guys the update.
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Symptoms are not spoken about because they are useless.
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okay I just just wanted to know if the rash associated with, always comes with a fever, and the fever would last more than a few hours.
Probabbly was just a hot sweat and the skin is probabbly a bruise and just skin blotchiness. I'm hoping so, feeling optomistic that my 28th day duo test will be a negative. Just waiting for the official word. Thank  you to those who have responded and to those who share their thoughts, and my best wishes for those in anxiety and uncertainty.
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has it been 28 days....well i got that rapid one kinda early but anxiety got to me and it was free so why not.
now I don't know what to do i had sex again with a girl after my rapid test came negative. I met her on a dating sight and she took the condom off me while she was giving me oral and then we had unprotected sex. that was about 4 days ago. And I got a rash on my arm looks like a bruise but its not round but patchy ish on my forarm. But i blacked out and had a tusle with security. might of came from there.

I really need some therapy I keep over drinking and am doing very stupid things. I don't know what happens to me when I drink. I become a different person. i do some embarressing stuff.

I just need to get a girlfriend was talking to this nice girl pre-law went on a date brought a friend and I thought she was negelecting be rude. but my friend was like real addiment saying that i was just imagining things. I beleive him , I think i might have some issues there. thats when i got real drunk and got in a tusle with some security.

Now I don't know how to test. 4 days since last time I had sex. I've been a little permiscuious this past month. havent had action in years guess I got a little carried away. but I always have hiv phobia after having sex with someone who is not my girlfriend that Ive been knowing and going steady for quite some time.

I need to test the fastest smartest way. 3months in the end I know but, one month is a long time to way for a duo. pcr test...... then 3 month.
I hate it, why do I have to be so horny. it's like a curse if i had a girlfriend I would have this problem but I'm very self conscious and don't take rejection well...

I hope you can give me some good advice...
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got a rapid test a couple of days ago was negative.
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She new too, now she d9nt want to amswer the phone.....first actual girl thats not a proatitiute that i mwet ob thw internwt. And i decidw yo use no protwction n i get it. My family is wjat im xincerned for....  
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Someone say something got rash ive never seen rwallly fuck2d now......fyck in d7nb....gelp me...
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i jinked my self... now i got it slept with one more girl.....shouldnt post online....bad luck.not even a week had unprotwxywd swx qith girl...  ow got the rash....nevwr seen anything like it beforw....now im ****** wtf......u was so cloae but i lost it.     My life done now....
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Know i gotit for sure .  What happpebwdnde son close got a rash after sleepining with girl... i know it is it loooms ugly n came from no where. .....wtf....i almost made ot out..
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Well it's funny how anxiety works because after I took mytemp. Almost practically all went away. Still gonna test that's a no Brainer got to know what ur packin...that's all from me for now.
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Gonna get a rapid test for peace of mind When my schedule let's up. No time as of now for the pcr. Well I will keep posting for those who are interested.
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Well I figured I already had sex with her before and what was the harm if I used protection.

Well finally was able to buy a thermometer today. I've been feeling hot and Such. My temp read 98.6 so I don't have a fever thankfully. Yes now I'm gonna keep my Snake in its cage and no more Working girls.

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Hi, can u guys tell me if ars  symptoms would be intermintent like feel okayish, one day then feel kinda shifty the next. Or even in hour intervals.
I've been having an on and off sore throat like 2 days sore. Then gets better then come back maybe a couple days later. Been feeling headachey kinda on and of day to day. And feeling hot skin and breaking into hot sweats here and seemingly irratically.

I had sex again with the same girl. The 2nd one again,I asked her if she gets tested  and she said that she got tested 3 weeks ago and gets tested every 3 months.

I don't know how credible her answer is, so the last time I had sex the condom broke again this time I felt it break and pulled it out instantly. She was on top so I got out in about 2 seconds.

Nervous that I might of got something.
I try to ignore it but when u have symptoms it's kinda like a constant reminder.  
So I'm gonna get a pnr hi test just to ease my mind. Can u tell me what u think about my symptoms if it's ars like.
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Please keep up posted abiut the result. You will be fine mate. cheers!!!
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2nd encounter was 8 days after first
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Of course I'm gonna test. Always gotta know u r status.the second girl seemed nice though we chatted and kinda hung out. It's the first girl I was real worried about. But I will test out. 28 days then 3 months. If anyone else would like to chime in I would appreciate  that. Thanks.
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Hi there mate,

The first incident is safer, however the second one which the condom broke is risky. if the condom  broke during the intercourse, it will become risky. Your symptoms seemed to appear just after 2 days, which is very early for ARS....
Do not let yourself fall into HIV anxiety. i've been there and it aint no fun at all. When was your second encounter. if you really think, the condom broke during the vaginal intercourse, then you need to have a test. but dont worry so much, not all hookers have HIV, who knows she is also negative as well.... Cheers Mate!!!!!
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As long as head of your penis remains covered during the penetration, you are safe. vaginal fluids do not harm if contacted outside the host's body
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