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french kiss and quick "suck"

Hello all
I french kissed a high risk CSW last night for no more than 10 seconds. After that she literally did a single "suck" on my penis which was uprotected and "soft". That is all we did but i am freaking out because im worried she could have had cuts in her mouth and my back tooth had a bad cavity which caused the tooth to chip. What STDs can i get from french kissing and from that nanosecond "blow" on my penis. What are my risks for HIV and should i get tested for it?

thanks for the help
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anyone? i have testicular pain that comes and goes and a sinusinfection that started the day after the exposure and has stuck with me for 5 days and it wont let up. Is this a sign of an std or HIV?
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Hello all,
   1.5 days after i french kissed a high risk CSW and got a single "blow" on my soft penis i got a horrible sore throat and now 5 days later i still have a minor sinus infection. I also had pain in my left testicle. Could something have traveled on my uretha after such a short exposure when i was not even erect? Or could i have gotten a std in my mouth that is now affecting my testicles? Are these early signs of HIV. Thanks for the patience. Is this something to be concerned about and when should i get tested?
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i understand i do not have a risk for stds, but now 2 days later i have a horrible sore throat that has only gotten worse. Does this sound too early for any stds to appear?
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I am not a doctor, but after reading the forum, i have came up with this. Well before I start the chances are LESS than 1 in 10000, 1 in 20000. The reason there is a statistical data, because it is possible, because sex is a risk for any std. Although there hasn't been any known cases of people getting HIV from oral sex. Even though there was stated cases, these people also had vaginal intercourse as well. The reason( I believe) there is statistical data is so that it doesn't cause any problems with the opposing believers, but also show people the low risk that it shows.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you have been assessed as not having a risk.

kindly move on...the answer remains the same.
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thank you again
i just read on the cdc.gov website that french kissing may be a risk if the person has sores or herpes in their mouth. This CSW was very high risk and very dirty. Also I received a single "suck" from her. I've read that the chances are 1 in 10000 catching HIV via blowjob, but how is there any chance since saliva is used and not contagious. Is that statistic for the person giving the blowjob or receiving the blowjob? i just want to get things straight so i take the next necessary step. I want to also ask you if i should get PEP as soon as possible since this occurred a little over a day ago?
thanks for the advice
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186166 tn?1385259382
" We get many questions about kissing and oral exposure and whether or not the presence of a cold sore, bites to the lip, gum disease or other wounds in or around the mouth changes the answer to the question.  The answer is no.  The data which define the absence of any risk of getting HIV through kissing, deep or otherwise has be generated through studies of thousand and thousands of persons, some of whom had cold cores, cuts, etc.  There is no risk. "  DR HOOK / MEDHELP
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thanks lizzie,
have there ever been any cases in which someone got hiv via french kissing?
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186166 tn?1385259382
no risk regardless of her status.

this forum is hiv specific...other std questions should be addressed in the std forum.
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thanks
so in my case, the french and the suck were essentially the same thing meaning that they did not pose a risk because of saliva. However, i have read that i could get other stds from a blowjob so couldnt i get them in my mouth also? sorry to be persistent, but im very nervous because this CSW was very high risk. So lets say she did have HIV would my risk still be null.
thakns again
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186166 tn?1385259382
NOTHING that you have described put you at risk for contracting hiv...testing is not needed.
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