frottage worry (biggest mistake)

[amscared]

hii i wanna be totally honest wit you people how ever stupid it sounds.
Last week i was in thailand where i met a CSW. We went up to my room where in she took of her bra and shirt.(her pant was on).i jsut took off my shirt where in after which , we had frottage( rubbing over each others bodies, like in the act of sex). In frottage she was lying on the bed and i was on top of her.
She was topless and was wearing pants. i always had my boxers on.
We rubbed aginst each other for about 10 minutes after which i had cum in my boxers. I dont know if she had cum(i guess not as she was a professional CSW who i doubt would get turned on by frottage , with her pant on.)

I also heard that Vaginal fuilds which emerge on rubbing or frottage do not carry a risk of hiv ? is that so? even if they come in contact with the penis head?
and
Cervical fluids, thick mucous-like fluids deep within the vagina, do carry infectious fluids. These fluids are NOT encountered by rubbing or fingers. They are encountered through the thrusting of a penis during intercourse.
which of these two above sentences are correct?

i hope she didnt ozz out from the frottage , as she was lying down on the bed, wht if her vaginal fluids slide up to her naval? and i hope the vaginal secretions didnt touck my penis?
can some one help with a detailed description that i can comprehend , getting tensed about HIV through this incident. My girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex, but i wont until this loop hole is cleared.
thanks

[RainLover71]

There is nothing further to explain,how many more times do you need to be reminded that you had no risk.

[amscared]

can some one here explain more briefly? thanks

[Teak]

Reread the replies you have been given.

[amscared]

I know that on many other posts you have vehemently stated "No penetration, no HIV, the virus lives deep inside the woman by the cervix and requires full penetration involving specific/specialized conditions to spread." Those posts have given me great comfort, particularly as I am truly not promiscuous and this was a one time outlier event for me. I guess I would just like the reassurance that there is no way under the sun given the scenario I described above that HIV was transmitted. It seems difficult to believe thatfor example that HIV is present in vaginal secretions but cannot spread during frottage to the penis tip.

[Teak]

At no time did you have a risk of contracting HIV.

[amscared]

I also heard that Vaginal fuilds which emerge on rubbing or frottage do not carry a risk of hiv ? is that so? even if they come in contact with the penis head?
and
Cervical fluids, thick mucous-like fluids deep within the vagina, do carry infectious fluids. These fluids are NOT encountered by rubbing or fingers. They are encountered through the thrusting of a penis during intercourse.
which of these two above sentences are correct?

[amscared]

thats great news thanks a ton...wooohhhooo time 2 celebrate . thanks teak ,i trust in u

[Teak]

No risk.

[amscared]

U mean to say , no risk even if fluids touch penis head

[Teak]

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

[amscared]

Is it possible that her fluid touched my penis , as my penis was erect and there was a lot A LOt of rubbing with force.
If her fluids toched my penis and she was HIV+ then wht are the chances??

[amscared]

thanks but my boxers were wet at the end of the act. Wht abt cervical fuilds and vaginal fluids is that correct?

[stoll1]

This is an HIV prevention forum, what you describe has nothing to do with HIV, Frottage its just frottage no penetration, you were wearing boxers.....you were never at risk...

Maybe visit Medhelp anxiety forum

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child