hand job ..please help

[mathewtvm]

2 weeks back, i went to a massage parlour for a normal massage first time in my life. The lady massaged me and touched my penis and started hand job.. all with some oil... finally i ejaculated and she cleaned with towel... i was very much worried about incident although i just went for a normal massage and ended up like this.

my doubts/fears are below
1. will i get HIV based on this?
2. I dont have any open sore/cut on penis.. but i have not noticed any cut on her hand.. in this case will HIV will happen? even if she have open cut, then she should have blood oozing out, right?
3. even if she did a hand job some one else prior to me or she had vaginal fluid in her hands, that should have gone when she started hand job, right? because hand job happened 20 minutes after normal massage.
3. I have not experienced any illness , sore throat, rashes till date.
4. if the lymph nodes in neck are swollen due to this, should i get pain when i touch? how could i check this? will i get pain when touch?
5. should i get tested.

i am living on great fear, anxiety.. i cant tell my wife and not having sex with her due to this. I have not done any sex with anyone other than my wife.

please help.. please

[chunnu961]

No Man... U don't get Hiv like this....It has to be bodily contact....Hiv outside it's host can not infect....

[nursegirl6572]

I couldn't agree more with alienshadow.

You were not at ALL at risk in this scenario.  You are perfectly fine, and can put this behind you.

NO testing needed whatsoever for this situation.

Be happy.

[alienshadow]

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You were not at risk for contracting hiv please see the health pages ok