having serious anxiety

[srice94]

Yesterday I was raped by a guy friend I've been seeing (Fwb ) he knew I didn't want to have vaginal sex with Jim yet talked me into it and pressured meI'm

As he was having sex. He stopped after a couple of mins and never came.

This was without a condom and I am scared for my life.

He's had multiple sex partners before me and I asked him if he has tested negative.

I was so I'm shock I didn't tell anyone until today.

He claims to have tested negative with everything and gets tested every 3 weeks or so, but I don't know if I can believe him. When I went to the clinic today, they gave me a urine and blood test and had me take the plan B contraceptive.

I wanted to have the medication known as P.E.P which prevents HIV in the first 72 hours if I believe I was exposed, but it wasn't prescribed to me and imfreaking out.

[LIZZIE LOU]

i'm not really seeing "the rape" here…you consented to have sex after he talked you in to it.

REGARDLESS…

you can have a duo test at 4 weeks or an antibody test at 6 weeks.  either of these will give you a very good indication of your status.  follow up at 3 months for a conclusive result

[RainLover71]

I don't care if it's not a law,bottom line is you were raped & should have been given the option of having nPEP prescribed.

[Teak]

It's is not a law. Period.

[RainLover71]

A police officer that was bitten by a criminal in the UK that was HIV+ was given nPEP immediately.It's not a law but with rapes here in Australia it is almost always prescribed.

[Teak]

It is not a law that nPEP has to be prescribed.

[RainLover71]

nPEP has been given to people that have had protected sex with HIV+ people that have had no risk at all so there are inconsistencies but this case is serious & nPEP should certainly be an option for you.

[hangon51]

Post prophylactic treatment is up to you and your doctor.

Ignore any internet advice.

[RainLover71]

It was a rape which is a criminal act,any knowledgeable doctor would prescribe nPEP in this situation.

[Teak]

It's not a law in the US that nPEP has to be prescribed. It's at the doctor's disgression .

[RainLover71]

Go & report him to police,they will make him have an HIV test and then what you need to do is test at 4 weeks with an HIV DUO which is 99% reliable & then a final test at 3 months.In a rape situation you can insist on PEP & they have to prescribe it to you by law in some states,go to the ER right now & ask for it.You need to be examined aswell with a rape kit.All the best.