Oral sex and french kissing are not risk of HIV transmission.
so french kissing is not oral sex?
Remember also that HIV infection is caused by the HIV virus, not by bleeding gums.
If no virus is present, you're not going to get infected no matter how much blood there is.
As the docs on the Experts forum have stated time and time again, deep kissing poses NO risk ***even in the presence of HIV**, and those guys know what they're talking about (unlike dubguy, who apparently doesn't).
You can rest assured that you do not have HIV if all you've been doing is deep kissing.
Short answers to your questions:
1) No
2) No
You didn't have an exposure. HIV is not transmitted by kissing or oral sex.