help.. really stressed

one year ago... i had oral sex with a sex worker...i used a condom that she gave me..the problem is that before the oral she performed a hand job that is not risky at all as soon as i finished she put a condom on and started sucking my penis...i got these fat glands down there (thats what the Doc said) and had a shaving cuts (not bleeding) if there was blood in her saliva what is my risk and if there were a microscopic hole in the condom? the important Q is what is my risk if the blood in the saliva contacted these glands (open head...when pressure white stuff comes out and not puss) and how much blood is needed to infect me through such exposure PLZ help..i had rashes (hives) and flu for like 8 times this year alone and i had a loose stool for like a month and alot of these symptoms...can i rest or i must i do the test (i cant do it i am soooooooooooooooo scared ) plllllllz help me      

[RainLover71]

You can be confident believing everything i,ve told you because they are facts.Other websites don,t state the facts and spread bogus information and that is what starts generating fear and confusion.Your safe.

[RainLover71]

You can stop being scared right now because saliva is not infectious,actually it has the oppisite effect,it renders the hiv virus inactive because it contains many proteins and enzymes.Shaving cuts heal over very quickly and ARS symtoms (symptoms) don,t come and go,they happen all at once and usually 2 to 4 weeks after infection.You never had a risk and don,t require any testing,your safe.

[unlucky123]

i know what u r talking about...my Q IS if there was any blood in her mouth and come into contact with the fatty glands (the got open head i dunno if its considered open cut)this is killing me those dots those cuts those i dunno what the hell they r i hope i got no HIV thnx man

[RainLover71]

The saliva would neutralize the hiv virus in the blood,also hiv transmission occurs inside the body not outside it,the virus is very fragile and becomes inactive as soon as it is exposed to air and one more thing,a mouth is not an anus or a vagina either.

[unlucky123]

i dont know how to thank u....all i can say i am a hypochondriac person..for one year i searched the not over and over...some say no risk some say there is some say yes u can have it... i dont know who to believe....the info u r providing r u sur about it?  

[RainLover71]

You can be confident believing everything i,ve told you because they are facts.Other websites don,t state the facts and spread bogus information and that is what starts generating fear and confusion.Your safe.

[unlucky123]

i think i am having oral hairy leukoplakia :S:S:S:S:S what can i do? i saw at one site that is is only for HIV and it can show anytime :S:S:S:S heeeeellllppp meeee

[RainLover71]

Please,it,s important that you don,t let anxiety cloud your judgement.You never had a risk so what your experiencing is related to some other problem,but it,s not hiv.Don,t go searching for symptoms because they don,t diagnose hiv.

[nursegirl6572]

OHL needs to be diagnosed by a medical professional, you cannot self diagnose.

You had no risk!

[unlucky123]

i am really confused here...one say in order to get hiv from oral u need a really big amount of blood to get in areally deep cut and so...then again they say anal sex is danger because cuts in rectum...from what i know no one bleeds like hell from there while getting ******...again they say u need a lot of blood to come into fresh cut and bleeding one to get hiv...then again they say a little blood in the mouth comes into contact with sore on the penis or microscopic cuts that u cant see can cause hiv... i mean what the hell i am really confused here... i had oral sex with a sex worker and i had fat glands down there they are kinnda open i think they are like sores or sth and i had shaving cuts not bleeding but kinnda wet after scratching it i think now every body says no risk no risk but damn i think i am at risk a big one...can somebody explain why no risk and by explain i mean full explanation no just no risk u had no risk...thank u all :)  

[sonemed]

you do not need to be confused

you had no risk

[unlucky123]

well thank u but i want explanation if u may :) or anyone
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