my cousin was just diagnosed with herpes a couple days ago..she told me she had went to the doctors bc she had pains and blisters in her vaginal area & her doctor told her it was genital herpes..i was remembering me sharing drinks & cigarettes with her and her bofriend of whom she thinks she got it from.im wondering if you can get herpes from sharing drinks or cigarettes with someone who has the virus but doesnt have an outbreak or anything.neither of them had any visible soars of the mouth of any cold sores on their lips.please help me with this.