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hiv female masseuse

Hi,i go to spa massage yesterday,i want to have sex with female masseuse,so she handjob me and put a condom on my penis,when my penis already on her vagina lips,my penis shrink,she handjob me again and try insert my penis to her vagina,again my penis shrink,so she took off the condom and handjob me untill my penis hard,she put the same condom which she took off earlier,i ask her why don't use new condom,she say she just have one,so she try again to insert my penis to her vagina but my penis shrink again,she took off the condom,handjob me,put the same condom again and insert my penis to her vagina ,this time my penis entered to her vagina,we have sex for maybe 5 minutes and my penis shrink again,she took of the condom,and she say oil in the condom almost dry,and i look the condom look little loose to but i don't mind,she say she want to oiling the condom,i say yes,so she gave lot oil massage to the condom inside and outside,after she oiling the condom,she put the condom to my penis but she have hard time put the condom on my penis,i ask her why,she say she put the condom reverse to my penis and she say take it easy it's same,so i have sex again with condom reverse untill i cum,maybe about  10 minutes,after i wash my penis,i just realized i made i mistake,her vaginal fluid trapped in the condom,so her vaginal fluid being on my penis head while i have sex after she reverse the same condom,so i exposed with her vaginal fluid,i am at risk of hiv?
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With the condom intact you had no risk.
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Hi,im back again,i want to ask something,if i have sex with just one condom and i reuse the condom 10 times,but use it both side,like first i use condom and have sex,second i use condom but reverse and have sex,third i use condom but reverse again and have sex,fourth i use condom but reverse again and have sex,like that until 10 times,and before she reverse the condom she always oiling the condom both side with massage oil,so she oiling the condom 10 times to,and every she reverse the condom,i have sex about maybe 5 minutes,so in total i have sex for 50 minutes with one condom both side,and the process when she oiling the condom,reverse the condom and installing the condom to my penis is pretty quick from 1 to 10 times,but luckyly the condom did not broke,but considering what she do and how many times my penis exposed with her vagina fluid,i have hiv risk?
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Doesn't change the answer.
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Teak,i remember what happen now,she oiling the condom twice,when my penis shrink for the fourth time,after that she took off the condom,oiling the condom inside and outside,put the condom to my penis,try insert my penis to her vagina,my penis entered to her vagina and have sex for just about 5 minutes,my penis shrink,she took off the condom again,oiling the condom inside and outside,put the condom again to my penis but this time she put the condom reverse,have sex until i cum about 10 minutes,still no risk teak?
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yes
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Okay teak,that's means no right?
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You did not have an exposure.
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Okay teak,my last question,does it matter in my case above,when the condom oiling and when the condom reversal?for example she oiling the condom in 3 try not before she put condom reverse to my penis and she reverse the condom in 4 try not in last use?i ask this because i have poor memory,i'm afraid my memory wrong and affect my risk,because i did not count how many times she took off and put again the condom
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You did not have an exposure.
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Okay teak,what about her vaginal fluid in condom which is trapped and expose my penis head from condom last use until i cum?that's not a risk?
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Had your condom failed you would have known without a doubt.
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Sorry acidentally press post,I read oil make condom weak and she oiling the condom with lot of oil,and my penis exposed with her vagina fluid which is trapped in condom because of condom reverse,no need a hiv test?
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The condom didn't fail so you never had an exposure.
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Thank you teak,no problem if i use condom repeatedly and in last use,she oiling the condom and she reverse the condom
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Doesn't matter, you never had an exposure.
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Note:she on the top of me all time
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You never had an exposure.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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