with her. I didn't know she was positive for the couple years. When I found out I went and asked some general questions from a doctor. Kissing and fingering is not a risk! I kept dating her on and off. She was always a very fragile person mentally. She loved me one second and didn't the next. I understood were it all came from and that is why I stayed with her. I actually had a stupid risk which I now don't consider a risk!