and HIV test at 3 weeks which came back negative so didnt think anything of it.
Then 5 weeks later i noticed a dramatic weight loss leading to 8 weeks after the the daft thing i did. i lost about 2 stone in matter of 3 weeks, also 8 weeks after the 'daft thing' i have a sore throat
and under my left arm pit hurts. also i had really bad stomach cramps for 3 weeks which i actually went to Hospital for.
I took another HIV test 9 weeks and 3 days after 'daft thing' and it came back negative.
Im really worried because i have a partner and daughter which are my life, i know i did a stupid thing but i cant turn back time. i would prefer to have cancer than HIV as i might of infected the most improtant person in my life.
I have spoken to the girl i slept with and she seems to think that she is fine and had no symptoms my girlfriend also is having no symptoms althought i havent told her about whats going on in fear
so you think i will be ok, imso sorry to even come on here and tlel people my problems, just my mum and dad both died this year and i have no1 to turn too, never in my life i have felt like this, i have to wake up every day and smile cause my gf and daughter..
i have always kept a close eye on my weight cause my a gym instructor 2 stone is alot to lose, i have read that weihgt loss isnt that common straight away in HIV?? is that true??
Also if i have been losing this weight from 4/5 after the incident wouldnt that mean they would of picked it up after the 9week 3 day test???
sorry again to talk about this, just dont no what else to do :(
For what i have read on here you are the person who knows most i think.
I know your rules etc about keep asking questuion and i totally understand them as i bet you get loads people on here like myself who is worrying etc.
Can i ask you a question ... from your experiance and knowledge would you say my 9 week 3 day test is a very good thing and prob my 12 week test may be ok aswell??
Do you no any1 who has tested neg at 91/2 weeks and then pos at 12 weeks???
please just answer tehm 2 question for me, i promise not to pester on here , just since the recent passing of both parents i got no1 to ask and talk too which is why i took to the internet ( worse thing to do i think )