i need help

hello everybody...
last year i had intercouse with CSW.... it is on 4/4/2009... and it was with condom... i don't know if the condom are broken or not... but before that i had unprotected sex on december 2008 with someone i knew... i was diognose with NGU because i have symptom a week after the protected sex with the CSW... at 9/8/2009 i had a HIV blood test ELISA... and i got the result non reactive... at december 2009 i notice i have a swollen lymph node at my neck... it is not big and not visible... but i can feel them... i don't know when they grow... they grow i think about 1 cm or less... i have 2 lymph nodes at my left of neck and one at right of my neck... they stayed there untill now... please some one let me know if lymph node swollen due to hiv is it big? how swollen it is? i called the clinic where i got my blood test and they say someone will turn positive at 3 months, 6 months and 1 year... i am really scared... i even called the local aids centre and they said 6month is conclusive.. i don't know if i can rely on my only one test i have... i from malaysia and i don't know the guidelines here... i am very confuse.... this lymph node grow and not getting any bigger and i don't know it is swollen or not... and also please someone tell me how hiv thrush... i notice white coated tounge and not painful... my lymph node also not painful.... please help me....

[Teak]

You are conclusively HIV negative.

[ineedhelp83145]

How bout the lymph nodes? would the medication of NGU will affect my blood test teak?