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Hi there

Im a 37 yrs old married man. A few weeks ago, I had a sort of sexual frenzy episode, which resulted in

- mutual hand-job and blow-job with gay men in a sauna, + kisses.. but the blow-jobs were protected.
- relationship with a man, with anulingus performed on me (no protection) and kisses and mutual blowjobs (protected).
- relationship with a young girl : complete intercourse, protected... except for the blow-job she gave me, which was not.

I went on a hiv-related website in France where i got mixed answers : yes, the ******* thing might me a risk, maybe, it's not impossible, etc.
I don't want to infect my wife, of course, so my question is : should I get a hiv test ?

Thanks so much for answering.

Fabien

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV.

[fabfab72]

Thanks Teak,
Excuse me, i'm new to this forum and as you must have noticed, I'm french (sorry for the bad writing, I'm doing my best).
I do not question your answer but I just wanted to know :
1) what was your authority on the question at all (i.e. are you working in the medical field, or from your own experience) ?
2) what is your position concerning the various studies that can be found on the web (some saying there were not documented risk about insertive fellation, others saying "we cant be sure", etc.) I asked the question on french forums and the answer was : well, no need for testing, but you know, one can't be sure 100%, if your partner viral charge was high (which I don't know), or if she had bleeding gums (not sure neither : is there something I should have noticed).
Thank you very much.
Fabien

[Teak]

Click on the nick and you can read the profile and take the time to read posting tips and the posting guidelines.

[fabfab72]

Thanks, but I can't find the posting tipe you're writing about. Do they answer my 2d question ?

[Teak]

Look at the top of the forum.

Again you were never at risk.