is it risky?

[Necnecune]

Hi. Im a virgin. few months ago me and my boyfriend rubbed our genitalia each other I felt wetness, there was probably precum but not semen . There has never been a penetration. But my skin around vagina was reddish and irritatated because i did waxing 2 and a half hours before rubbing or lets sey heavy petting. İt lasted for minutes . There was no bleeding, but as i sad the area was reddish. Ejaculation always been away from my body. There were also deep kisses. These events repeated for a couple of times, every event was after waxing or shaving, i am concerned about the reddish skin and the invisible cuts resulted from shaving.Can this irritated skin (without bleeding) result in hiv transmission? Or if some precum contacted with the entrance of my vagina (no penetration, im a virgin), this can cause HIV transmission? After a while of these activities i felt a fever 98.6f for 4 days but not sweted at nights. And a swelling occueed between my leg and vagina it might be groin lymph node. The swolling lasted for like 3 days. You think am i at risk ?ı do not know about my boyfriends hiv status. Should i be tested? Or should i relax? I am a little freaked out now.

[Necnecune]

Thank you! I now relax for sure then without getting tested. Thank you again.

[JamesD1991]

You don't have HIV

[Necnecune]

And my symptoms are about sth else then?

[Necnecune]

Thank you, then can i relax now? Or still Should i be tested for hiv?

[JamesD1991]

Correct

[Necnecune]

I am sure that i was not infected eith hiv before him. And that is all we have done. Even if he is hiv+ , still there is no risk for me?

[JamesD1991]

Well, couples should test for all STD's, including HIV, at the beginning of a relationship.

Nothing you mention is a risk for infection.

[Necnecune]

İ have no idea if he is hiv+. I had no doubts about it then but these symptoms made me think about it. We broke up now, so i can not ask him anything. Actually i dont think that he is hiv+. But i want to consider the worst . Am i at risk if he is hiv+?

[paranoidstd]

You should relax. And why are you thinking your bf has hiv? Why not ask him test?