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is massage with handjob a risk?

Hello,

One week ago, I went to a massage parlor.

The woman who gave me a message was fully dressed, so she did wear all her clothes during the entire massage. So, she was not naked at all. I was naked and she started the massage on my back. After a while I turned around and she did massage my penis and she masturbated me until I ejaculated, so she gave me a happy ending. There was no penetration at all (she did wear all her clothes, not only underwear but all her clothes during the entire massage) and she also did not do oral, only masturbation, so happy ending with the hand.

Can this pssibly be any risk for hiv? What if she had her menstruation and she touched her vagina before I walked in the massage parlor or she has a wound that she touched with her hand just before I walked in the massage parlor and there was a little bit of blood on her hands or fingers (I didn't notice) during the massage and what if when she masturbated me until happy ending she touched the urethra of my penis with her fingers while there was a little bit of blood on one of the fingers. Could that be a risk for hiv?

Can you please take some time to answer my question?

I am terribly afraid.

Thank you very much for your time.

Best regards,
Philippe
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As stated, what you write of is not a risk for HIV transmission.  The only way to get HIV is through unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse with an HIV+ person and sharing of IV drug needles.  Symptoms are not used to diagnose HIV and as you had a no risk from your activity, please look to something else causing them. We wish you the best and are now closing this thread.  

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Hello,
Thank you for your quick reply.

One more thing, the incident is now 8 days ago.

During last week (about 4-5 days after the incident) I started to have serious muscle pain on my legs and also some red spots on my chest. I know that that are hiv symptoms.

Can you get symptoms like that within the first week after infection?

This makes me very scared.

I'm sorry that I disturb you again but could these be hiv symptoms in my case or is there another reason for this?


Thank you for your time
Philippe
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No risk, because HIV is inactivated in air, otherwise if it was as infectious as a cold everyone in America would have it. Only sexual risks are unprotected vaginal or anal which you were a long way from doing. HIV isn't a worm that burrows through her hand to get you.
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Thank you for your answer. So, even if there was a very little bit of blood on one of her fingers (didn't notice) while she masturbated me until happy ending, there was no risk of infection? Even if that little bit of blood came in contact with my urethra?
Reread the advice focusing on the word only rather than rephrasing your same question for no useful purpose.
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