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lapdance scared out of my mind.

I had a lapdance about nine weeks ago.  The dancer had her panties on and i was covered by a sheet.  I had the head of my penis in my hand most of the time.  After about 15 minutes of sitting on my lap and gentle grinding she got up so i could finish the job.  I noticed two wet spots on the sheet about mid shaft and scrotum that were the size of quaters.  I don't know if this was vaginal fluid or sweat from buttocks as she was a bit sweaty.  She said she was clean.  Assuming she is lying and was infected what are my risks here.  I had a anti-body test one day shy eight weeks and it was negative.  I am getting all kinds of answers from i am fine to i need to get a 250 dollar early detection test.  I am scared out of my mind as i have never dealt with this sort of thing before.  Please help me.
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You never had an exposure. Exposures require penetration.
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During unprotected sex on a male it is his urethra or under side of the foreskin not the shaft or the gland.
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Well I surely thank you for your time and god bless you sir for answering my questions.  Just to be clear was i right in thinking that the skin of the penis shaft is not an entry point for hiv?
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Yeah and you would be paying more for a no risk situation. You got took.
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Well yes i paid 100 for the anti-body test from private testing center seemed pretty reputable.  But when i called to get my negative result they said eight weeks was not conclusive and recommended the 250 dollar test.  Then i called another private testing center and they said like you that i wasn't exposed and that i was fine with eight week negative.  Then just to see what would happen i called the original center that i got the anti-body test from and talked to a different guy who recommended another anti-body test at twelve weeks to be sure until i informed him that it was his center who tested me originally then he said oh well if we tested you then you should be fine.  What is up with all of that?  Just for my own curiousity how long can the hiv virus survive outside the body?  Does it make a difference if the vaginal fluid is between her and me but still out of the body.  You seem like the one who would know.  Thanks for the info by the way i really appreciate it sir.  SINCERELY!!!!!
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No. Did you pay them money?
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OMG!!!!  I am so sorry sir!!!!!  I should have read profile before asking.  May i ask another question of you then?  I am circumcised.  What if i am mistaken and one of the spots were closer to the forskin below the head of my penis?  Would that make any difference?  I really can't remember exactly.  Also why would one testing center tell me i am fine with eight week negative and another tell me that i need a big fancy test?  
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Read my profile.
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Are you a dr?  Or just knowledgable about hiv?  
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Well that is what i thought, but i am getting all kinds of answers from the penis skin is a mucos membrane to i would have had to have gotten a TON of vaginal fluid directly into the ureatha to even have a minimal risk.  I am beginning to wonder if anybody really knows.
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