mad scared for sure i have hiv

well it all started about 1 month ago when i had sex with this girl that I've known for about a month. I wore a condom but the condom broke and i didn't realize that until i was done. well about 3 days later I came up with flu like symptoms ( fever, sore mustles, chills,night sweats, general tirdness and a pain in my upper abdomin (abdomen) from left to right).
at the time i didn't think nothing of it I just thought it was the flu. that went away after about 3 days but i still had the general tiredness and the abdominal pain.
the abdominal pain went away a week after the initial syptoms (symptoms) started. during week 2 i got a mild fever for 2 day, the chills, a sore throat and complete loss of apetite ( i dont get hungry i just eat to eat and very little a day)
i wake up at least three times a night and fall right back asleep and that hasn't stoped since it started.
during week3 a gland in the left side of my neck got enlarged but only one gland.my legs started twitching when i sleep, my bottom left wisdom tooth started to hurt and got sore then i started having this sharp pain in my lower left abdomin (abdomen) especially if i was bent dont long or when i was at work by week 4 the pain started to spread to my upper left abdomin (abdomen) but mainly in the lower part and even spread to my left testicle at times and my body has just generally been sore for 2 weeks now. week 4 just ended and im starting to feel better and the gland went down but i have this pain behind my left ear when i chew and i have this tingling in my right foot.

i went in to the std clinic at the end of 3 weeks and had hiv test done and some other tests but im waiting on the results til tomorrow.
i went to the hospital to have a mono blood test done and that came back negative.
what are the chances this can be acute hiv

[Teak]

Your symptoms came on to quick to be related to HIV. You can test 3 months post exposure to obtain a conclusive test result.

[felix1234]

do acute hiv symptoms usually come the way they did for me or do people usually get the symptoms all at once

[felix1234]

when glands do swell can one gland only swell or its more then one

[Teak]

More than one and generalized.

[felix1234]

thanks for the info everyone. i really appreciate it, but when u say generalized do you mean not just in the neck but the groine and armpit?

[nareshbbunty]

DR Hunter has replied in another thread that you cannot be unaware of a 'condom break'
as the whole condom splits on breakage and hence your exposure was protected.how did you find you had a condom break?
relax you dont have HIV

[Teak]

Swollen lymph nodes with ARS are not localized.

[felix1234]

after i was done having sex i looked at the condom and it was broken.

[felix1234]

i got my results back all came back negative including the hiv. the only one that came back posative is for hepatitus (hepatitis) A, so i have that. the question i wana ask is should i even bother going for my 3 month test for hiv or the hep A is the answer to my problems?

[felix1234]

they actually retested the blood sample they took and now the doctor is saying i dont have hepatitis A so now im mad scared again im stressing to the max

[felix1234]

No i did not get tested im just waiting for the 3 month mark and then im gonna go in and do it then.