I am 43, male. I love massages. Recently had a few massages that ended in masturbation. On two occassions I have been fingered as well. Have not had any penetrative sex
Were you fooling around with someone you know, or in a brothel? If the facilities of these slums are unsanitary, there's nothing protecting you from STDs. Do yourself a favor and see a legitimate massage therapist if you actually want a MASSAGE.