might be in deep trouble,conflicting info.pls help

hi guys, after a night out with a buddy of mine.i decided to get the services of a csw. we went to my hotel and before we started,we had a few chat. i tried to get to know her before doin anything. so i asked her abt her work and shetold me that she has a day job and only been a csw wen she needs money.so we decided to get started. she provided a condom and stated to give me oral.during that time,all i wanted is oral sex nothing more.but one thing led to another and i decided to hav sex.i ended not more than 5 mins.here's whats troubling me.i finished with which looks like an intact condom.my penis was completely covered but i never had the chance to check it very carefully for puntured hole. maybe my mind is driving me crazy,and starts thinking that maybe she had tampered the condom by puncturing a hole and that she might have hiv.now i have been reading posts from here saying any small hole on a condom will cause a failure by breaking and exposing the penis during sex. so i dcided to ask a friend to do an experiment for me. As he is also curious abt it he  punctured a hole on a condom, and had sex with his gf. ofcourse he told her abt the hole. then he told me not more tha 10 mins of sex, his condom was still intact and it scared the hell out of me.now i am kicking myself and with deep regrets why i had sex using cws condom and not cheking it for any pin holes. if the csw indeed hav hiv and she did put a pin hole in the condom what are my chance of contracting hiv. put in mind the only diffect i am refering is the pin hole on the tip (reservoir) of the condom. tnx in advance

[eltoro77]

id really like to hear ur assessments.tnx in advance

[reallyregret]

Hi eltoro77,

Ok, one question, did you see your semen collected in the condom after the sex?


May God bless


reallyregret

[eltoro77]

yes.but i did some experimenting with a pinhole in condom with water.left it for a day.and i still see the water in the condom.i think you really have to squeeze the condom for water squirt.if not the water reamins.kinda weird if unsee it for urself.that scared me.and i keep searching for answer with reagards to pin hole on condom.

[tepar]

this posting make my anxiety out of control.....

[tepar]

expert please....

[reallyregret]

Hi eltoro77,

Exactly, if nothing can come out, nothing can go in either.

You saw your semen being collected in the condom after your activity.
It simply tells you you are completely covered. You shouldn't worry about it.

Hiv should be the least of your concerns. You are more likely to mutate into winnie the pooh tomorrow than getting hiv from this.

Zero risk for hiv.

Take care.


May God bless


reallyregret

[eltoro77]

hi,how can u say this was a zero risk? did u read my post clearly? it said i punctured a hole on the condom.that means there was a hole. and placed water inside and left it for a day.and still water is inside.you hav to squeeze the condom for water to squirt. kindly explain why you think thisis a no risk.tnx

[Teak]

Condoms don't get pin holes in them, when a condom fails it fails catistropically. You never had a risk.

[eltoro77]

my friend did an experiment where he put a pin hole in his condom after sex his condom was still intact.what do u think abt this? when u say " condom dont get pin hole"? does that mean that all manufactured condom dont have pinholes or u cant  create a pinhole on the condom? have u any knowledge where a condom had a pin hole and dd not break during sex?

[Teak]

Condoms are medical devices and are requlated and tested before being packaged and sold. Condoms DO NOT get pin holes in them.

[eltoro77]

please read carefully. i m not refering pinhole diffect by manufacturer. i m refering abt self made pin hole. and duing sex it did not break.have you heard that a tiny self made hole do not break during sex? do you still think this is a risk?tnx

[Teak]

NO.

[reallyregret]

Hi eltoro77,

I honestly think you are working yourself into a frenzy from this.

If you just think about it, even when you poked a hole deliberately, the water you put in did not come out who the whole time until you started squeezing on it. It only serves to tell you how difficult is it for any form of body fluids to get in or out 'even if' there was a tiny hole present.

If you really cannot live with the advice you have received here, you may go ahead for a test at 3 months to know for sure.

Anyway, the need for a peace of mind is a sufficient reason to have a hiv test done.

Wish you all the best, and take care.


May God bless


reallyregret

[Teak]

You don't need testing for protected sex.

[eltoro77]

u said "no" to my previous post. which one are u refering to? is it u never heard that if  "some one poke a hole in condom" and did not break during sex " or " this is not a risk despite the " intentionally poked hole " on the condom which did not break after sex. tnx

[Teak]

You have been assessed as not having a risk.

[eltoro77]

tnx for ur patience and assessment.