nagative HIV test but symptom continues!!!!

Guys please help me if you have heard of similar situations.
I had vaginal sex more than 4 months ago and the condom broke. i developed some of the hiv related symptoms after 4 weeks and two days which kept going more or less for 4 months now. i tested negative on Elisa Duo test or rapid test which started after 33 days. then 8,12,14 weeks and the last one i did was after 4months. i also had undetectable HIV-1 PCR RNA test after 6 weeks. sadly i can't believe my tests. my doctor as well as doctors on this forum and Dr Bob on Body.com say at maximum a test at 3 months is conclusive.
i still have symptoms. i get tired easily i have white coating in my tongue and just a few days ago i had sensation and stinging pain on different part of my body hands and feet for about 4 days. these symptoms really scares me and i am deeply depressed but not for nothing. i am sad and sick and depressed because i still think i have this virus and it lives in me. i feel like i am dying and  i am totally a different person and that's why i can't believe in my tests. i have been also negative for any other std tests you can think of including syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, hep b and c , mono. i had wbc and it's normal.  
i want to know if you guys have any comments on my situation.if you think any test at this time can finish this marathon once and for all. i hope i stay negative if i possibly do a regular test after 6 months but i bet you know it's not easy to wait more. i want to finish it right now. I am really going down and any help will be greatly appreciated.
yours!
A stupid soul  

[jamescasley]

white tongue? dont be crazy dude...millions of ppl  have that..including me... and did u say you went to the doctor..cause they will give u the best test..and if they say negative..then stop worrying. Its all in ur head. stop worrying now...you have convinced urself that u have it...don't u get it..if u convince urself ur fat..youll be fat...etc..just stop worrying

[Uniquelymen]

If you have tested at 14 weeks and has no other real risky exposure than you are HIV negative.

Whatever your problem is, it is not related to HIV.  See a doctor.

HIV is diagnosed through a blood test, not through signs and symptoms.