now i am more afraid

Question

last saturday i met the"girl" that i make-up with. she just do an oral sex to me only & now i know that "she" is HIV+. I'm really scared right now. there's a big bump inside my upper mouth, coughing for 2days & sore throat, feel warm behind my neck. my exposure was on 11 Feb. furthermore remember, i never wash my penis before & after that sex

really regret my doing because i have wife & a 3years old son.

somebody help me please

NickOne7 · Accepted Answer

from our HIV EXPERTS on MedHelp

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD 

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK 
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK 

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment? 
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA 

"The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK

Hope this helps

YangMenyesal · Answer

thanks Nick

YangMenyesal · Answer

can u give me the link?

diver58 · Answer

Read a very comprehensive response from Teak on oral sex,,, he replied only a short while ago.

YangMenyesal · Answer

i'm sorry.. but it read mostly that the risk is low & there is still a risk too..

diver58 · Answer

Reply from Teak is crisp yet complete and comprehensive. You were never at a risk of HIV. move on with your life

Teak · Answer

You did not have a risk of contracting HIV from oral sex.

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