opinion on exposure, please

[trd09]

Good Morning, I would like to ask for your opinion on my risk and exposure.  Short version of story is that I met an older women (45) at a bar/restaurant last week, have been talking for baout a week, last night i met her at my house and after talking for a while we started to kiss (french kissing) and that led to an unprotected blo*job and me fingering her.  after that I realized what was about to take place and put on a condom.  We did have sex for about 20-30 mins and when i was finished and ejaculated and checked the condom and was still intact.  even went as far and going in the bathroom and filled the condom with water to check for any leaks or breaks and still was ok.  I made a mistake by doing this b/c i am in a realtionship currently and feel horrible about what ive done.  aside from the guilt which i will have to deal with, i would like to know if i have put myself at any risk for hiv or any other std's (ie. syphillis, hepititas, herpes, gonorhea etc...) I understand this is the hiv forum but really dont have time from work to re-post in the other forum.  if you feel that there is a risk i put myself in, please advise me what to get tested for. I asked this woman if she is clean and healthy and said she was and has only been w/ 2 other people before. i would like to believe this but still doesnt make me feel that she cannot pass anything on to me.  not trying to freak here, but have a thousand thoughts running thru my head right now.

is there a risk here for hiv or any std's from the unprotected oral on me, or the fingering, and most important the vaginal sex. (no anal or anything like that took place)
in advance i would like to say thank you.  

trd

[Teak]

At no time were you at risk of contracting HIV.

[joggen]

You've already been advised that you have ZERO HIV risk from your encounter.

Please heed the forum rules about excessive posting.

[trd09]

Do you see any reason for me to not be able to safely resume sex with my girlfriend after this? like i said we dont use condoms but i dont want to obvisously put her at risk here, for something that was my mistake.

[LIZZIE LOU]

sooooooooorry...i meant unprotected ORAL sex carries no risk...guess i need to slow down.

[Vance2335]

she meant unprotected sex carries a risk. protected sex does not carry a risk unless the condom fails/breaks. and you know whan a condom breaks.

[trd09]

what do you mean by your last post.  its confusing to me

"unprotected sex carries no risk.
protected sex carries a risk ONLY if the condom fails"

[LIZZIE LOU]

unprotected sex carries no risk.
protected sex carries a risk ONLY if the condom fails.

[trd09]

thanks for the reply, ive heard and read that unprotected oral and even protected sex does carry some risk for hiv transmission.  can you explain why this is and how it could be relavant to this senerio

[Vance2335]

You had no HIV risk.
It is not hard and it does not take up much time to copy and paste what you wrote into the STD forum. You did have some STD risks but post in the STD forum and you will be advised of those risks.