oral sex

I had a protected oral sex & it was my first gay explosure which i feel guilty for doing it but am sufering from anxiety now. It was about 5 months ago i gave him oral sex but he came inside the condom but now i keep on thinking what if the condom had a hole in it, but i am sure it didnt rip & why do i keep thinking negative that i have caught something. Thank You for your help.

[LIZZIE LOU]

"why do i keep thinking negative that i have caught something?"

go back and read your first sentence in the above post.

PROTECTED sex of any kind = NO RISK

[Mal306]

Thank u lizzie lou your the best, i feel alot beta.  

[Mal306]

i suffer from deppression and thats why i think negative, some sites say from oral sex its a low risk but i know medhelp is the best which i trust, thats the reason why i dont go on bogus sites.

[LIZZIE LOU]

:)

[Mal306]

I have been suffering for months, i had oral sex protected the person was saying the condom was tight i still think the fluid might have gone through the condom i didnt feel anything going in my mouth i suffer from acid reflux my throat is damaged anyway, also he fingered me i suffer from hemoiroids can i be in risk because of his fingers incase he had a cut or anything on his finger and i didnt wanted to the act to go that far but it did. I also suffering from anxiety i do have rash on the sides of my body i dont know if its eczema but i do suffer from eczema, i have a burning feeling on my bladder, my left side of my stomach hurts i have been suffering from coughing up phelem for about a month now i have pins and needles on my hands and my body hurts. all this happen after 3 months of incident i havnt lost any weight or had a sore throat and sometimes the throat feels funny because of acid reflux.

[LIZZIE LOU]

not hiv related.

(and just FYI...UNPROTECTED oral sex does not transmit hiv.  you had protected oral sex)

[Mal306]

What about the fingers? because i suffer from hemoiroids, can anything be transmitted and my symptoms are to do with anxiety. lizzie lou i dont know how much to thank you your great.

[unwiseacts]

The only confirmed ways to transmit HIV are:

Unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse (penetration is necessary)
Sharing needles for IV drug use
Mother to child (during pregnancy, child birth, or breast feeding)

Your "exposure" did not fit into any of these categories. As Lizzie told you, even UNPROTECTED oral sex carries no risk, so oral sex with a condom is about as safe as you can get, barring abstinence.

You are worrying needlessly. Continue to practice safer sex using condoms correctly and consistently, and you can expect to live the rest of your life HIV-free. Good luck to you.

[LIZZIE LOU]

i read your post.  if there had been a risk from anything that you described...i would have told you so.

you were NEVER at risk.

[Mal306]

Thank you both i dont believe in anal sex so i would keep away from that anyway. Take care keep your good work up.