oral touch from condom to mouth by finger

hello all,

a week ago i have had se with a woman who was an alcholic as much as i could see there was no injection spots on arms or other side of body. She said she was an ex prostitute and 5 years ago stopped  and now has a babe etc.

Before sex,  i havent touch any of her genital zones and kissed  lips. she also didnt touch my penis. After i got hard i used a condom for  the intercourse. But in the half  of  intercourse( maybe 3 min later), we heard a noise and stopped for short time then  my penis has lost its hardless  %50 or a bit more as the condom was still on . By then i started touching my penis and i touched it for a min or more  to get it hard for ejucation. then after ejucation i touched condom to take it off i checked it wasn`t broken.

thenwith those fingers( which i touched the condom) i touched my lips etc.. rolled a sigarette and smoked with that hand ( in what it touched  a lot on my lips ) i dont think so i had any seeable scars on my  lips but it was dry.

4 days later after this event ,i started getting  fever, and yesterday ( so 6 days later) i devaloped a herpes in my lips inside mouth), of course, i also feel fatugue and i have not fully but semi-diarrhea.  i have these symptoms starting from tuesday( slightly) but  friday and saturday night were full. I feel as if i am gonna vommit when i try to eat smt.

And honestly, I fear that they could be pre- symptoms of  HIV.

Is that possible?

I am looking forward to hearing from   anyone who might help.

Thank you a lot .

[joggen]

You can't catch HIV from touching vaginal fluid. Outside of the body, the virus is not infectious. You had no risk.

[xpxp]

hi,
thank you  for your fast response,
As far as i have read from this forums and some other sites i also know that i can`t get it like that  as you stated.

My worry is that the fluid  has touched and possibly got my lipps and in my mouth at some level and not at that momment but  generally , i have bleeding  gum cos of smoking etc.

To be honest i would not get worried, if only i had fever  and flu symptoms but I suddenly  get the`` herpes``  on my lip on the side  where i touched and as i state  my hand ( so my fingers) were there after touching the condom for a min or more.

And my fever is like 37,9 C( smt like 100 F) And i am almost sure  as its summer here i havent got some flu.

thank you very much for ur response

[xpxp]

Hello again,
I know  i am told here i wasnt at risk,but i dubble checked things in my head i am getting suspectious about things.
I need to update the situation.
because it changed. since  yesterday( the 7th day from intercourse). I have devoloped a strong costant  headache, I feel that my forehead is full and pushes to my chaw and my teeth. i cant sleep properly.in addition to this the worst  thing i have now  nausea which awakes me from sleep. and fever is going on non stop. i have a runny nose. i am sometimes sneezing.
i am so anxious about this thing now.

i dont know what triggered  the sinus- like flu. its summer here, the only person i saw as a stranger was the person i had sex with and i am sure she didnt have any flu.

my head is trobbing which made me awake  with nausea so that i am typing this.

There is smt wrong.on the side of my forehead. the vessels are visible and so strong looking.

I read that running nose , sneezing are not ARS sypmtoms. I  was careful since yesterday with my diet and i ate only small things like crackers, boiled potato etc. so i dont know what is causing nausea this much heavy.

pls help and advice me.

there is a feeling coming in me which is really hurting.

[joggen]

I suggest that you address your anxiety and the symptoms that you are experiencing by putting yourself under appropriate, professional care.

This forum has no interest in symptoms. If you had read previous posts as advised in the opening threads you would know why.

You were advised that you had no risk, therefore, this forum has nothing more to offer you.

Post again and you will be reported to the moderators.

Goodbye.

[xpxp]

Hello,
Please do not  report me. if i didnt need help i would not bother none of you.
Joggen told me that  there was no risk on the given statement. and i am convincent with it.
i thank him.
But since monday when i get  that strong headache and sneezing  things didnt get better but worse.
  Since i wrote my last post here, i havent gone outside even for 1 min . i rested  eventhough its summer. its now wenesday evening 20.30 i just walked out for a short while.But everything is same!

The fewer is coming in waves, right now i am having 37.6 37.7 C  fever. since yesterday night  i have devoloped so much sensitivity and burning under my arms, in arm bits.its burning.
And Nausea is so strong t hat i cant eat anything when i try to sleep its waking me up. and this is happening with nightsweats now . yesterday night i woke up as if i was in swimming  pool. I dont understand why?
The dizzness is more than ever i cant even  concentrate on a simple thing any more.

Sneezing and runny nose has stopped. But Fever is going on. Non stop. and this is  The day 9 after the intercourse. I am relieving the fever with water but just in 30 min its coming back. I feel confused and  am afraid so much.I still have semi-diarree.I cant explain the fever ANYMORE. IT MUST HAVE GONE by now.

  I KNOW  that  I asked in the beginning from Oral Hiv Chances And i used a condom. i am sure of it. I replay scene that happened in that night, i am recalling that the condom was damaged or else half broken. i`m taking it into  consideration.

Please, can somebody tell me if  these are ARS symptoms or not ? i read from here too, these could be Anixery symptoms too? But i cant  explain the fever any more.
PLEASE  Dont report me, Just tell me that they are or not and if they are not Please manage me to the right section of this forum. My heart is beating so hard as i have neusea  every moment.

Could you please help me?

i thank all of you so much

[Vance2335]

It is not ARS because as you have been told you didn't have a risk. Not hard to link those 2 statements up.
You are having an major issue with anxiety, see the anxiety community and possibily a therapist.

[LIZZIE LOU]

MOVE ON

[xpxp]

Thank you so much  vance,
i am also thinking about it same. I have  read as adviced All of the topix here.  I am from Europe this site is Us Based so many experts. so that your day time is my night time. i understand that there is smt major with anxiety i am having that for sure. but my problem is  the fever . how can it be possible that its coming as an attact and  getting  lower for a while then again attacking?
aspirin didnt work either.
since  joggen mentioned it i read all topix  in hiv . and  bunch of  anxiety. each time when i read i become a bit okay with positive thing and i feel as if i am gonna vomit with negative things. and yes  i am having then anxiety then but   Fever and sweat at night?

i have a big doubt about fever, sweating  and arm pit.

I cant velieve  i am going all this thru. I was a  normal Healthy person, What happened to me in 9 days?

meanwhile i thank that you answered me. meanwhile i opened  Anxiety forums to read over and over . :(

But  I hope you feel what i mean and feel.

thank you so much if any of you even bother to read

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