oral w/o protection

[Bluerider99]

Hi,

I really need someone to help me with this question. I have searched everything here and get bits and pieces of info, which is doing me no good for my specific situation.

At the end of August, I split with my g/f . Intoxicated and wallowing in my life, I decided to do something stupid. I was bi-curious and had a male of questionable character provide oral sex on me. no noticable sores or abrasions. October comes and me and my g/f decide to work it out. I had no symptoms or any idea that I picked something up.

Well, its now November and my g/f went to see her dentist who noticed she was jaundice. Next day, she saw her oral surgeon who said the same. Low and behold 2 days after this, I notice an almost like pimple abrasion on my groin.. So, now this me freaked out over syphilis/hep//herpes/hiv.. Its consuming my life with stress and anxiety and cant tolerate much more of it

So, my questions are

1) I know contracting HIV through oral is 1-10000, but if he possibly had syphilis how much does in increase my risk and how does it increase my risk? Saliva through mucus membrans? Skin contact to the abrasion? Abrasion contact with mucus membranes? Abrasion contact with skin? Saliva contact with skin?

2) Is jaundice a symptom of any of std's listed above besides Hep?

3) If I contracted Hep through oral, is HIV contracted the same way?

Thanks for anytime answering this... Im concerned that I basically gave 2 people a death sentence for a stupid mistake out of curiousity

[Bluerider99]

Thank you for the response.. I did look and it ends up that I am piecing together bits from other peoples stories which gives me a bunch of 'what-ifs' and a lot more anxiety over the situation. Sorry for the inconvienence, I was just concerned

[Teak]

There are thousand of answers to your question had you looked, at no time were you at risk of contracting HIV.