please advise me on the HIV risk

I’m 28 year old, during these long years I never had sex with a women… thus to my curiosity about sex went to a sex worker 3 months before… since this was my first time with a women I was totally on that ladies control… I initially thought of not having vaginal sex but I was not in control so had vaginal sex… during the whole night I had 1 oral sex and 3 vaginal sex…. Since that was the first time I was not able to last more even for 30 sec at the maximum… behind my mind it was the fear of HIV that made me not involved much during the intercourse but still my body went to the girls call… on all the 4 times of intercourse that night (oral and vaginal) the lady put the condom on my penis and once I cummed she asked me to was my penis that time even I went and checked pouring water inside the condom for any leakage there is no leakage, I checked the condom for leakage for all the 3 times after vaginal sex… but dint check the condom after oral sex but the lady just gave oral for 30 sec within which I cummed…  even these 3 months after the sex I din’t feel any problem in my penis… for confirmation I even read many forums but still trs some guilty conscious behind my mind troubling for HIV… do I need to test for HIV to confirm… please advise me what should I do… will there be any problem of HIV or any other STD risk for me….

[NickOne7]

NO RISK for HIV or STDS

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Thanks nick for your advice....
asking this out of curiosity...

does oral sex contract hiv?

what are the common symptoms of HIV?

i've read in few forums that the risk of getting aids out of single time sex is very low(1/2000)… is that true? if so how many times of sex will get you contracted to hiv?

[Teak]

No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
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Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

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There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA

"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." Dr.Hook

"The observation on thousands and thousands of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK

You had protected vaginal sex and you have not had an exposure to HIV.