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please someone ?

i had a an exposure a transgender kissed me on the lips several times and that was all no tongue was involved(but i have gingivities i dont know if my gums were open during this event ) but i have developed hiv symptoms after the 4 days of the kissing i developed fever and sore throat when coughing ..im still coughing ..i had this exposure on jan 22 and i got tested a week ago for hiv and stds  im still waiting on my resluts but anxiety i killing me and well as symptoms i have developed such as pains through out my body and feeling dizzy most of the time as well as being paranoid and my stomach hurts and the pain only goes away when i burp i lost appetite and i am frozen i am not living my life before this event i am really scared i dont know if i contracted hiv through this but im having symptoms
someone please advice me on how to live my life /
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thank you lizzie for ur time ...
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186166 tn?1385259382
some dr?  having a M.D. after one's name doesnt mean they are educated in hiv transmission.

your answer from dr hook:

Welcome to our Forum.  I will be happy to comment.  First, you do not know that your date has HIV.  Most transsexuals do not.  Furthermore, whomever told you that the activities you took part in put you at risk for HIV was wrong and does not understand how HIV is transmitted.  HIV is transmitted in adults only through penetrative genital or ano-genital sexual contact or by injection of infected material deep into tissue.  HIV is not transmitted by kissing, including deep (French) kissing, with or without gingivitis, or transfer of saliva.  There is no risk of HIV related to any of the activities you describe. You do not need to worry and do not need testing.

kindly move along...there is nothing more to tell you.
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thank you commenting lizzie thanks like i said i want to believe i really do and move on with my life and be able to sleep but i have developed symptoms and some doctor i went to said there is a risk and the cdc says there is a risk too and other doctors say here is no risk so i am confused on what and my symptoms i am experiencing make it even more difficult for me to live my life like i was before now i feel frozen through out the day ..
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186166 tn?1385259382
the cdc is an ultraconservative government agency who would probably like for no one to ever have sex again...geeeeeez

you had NO risk
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thank you for replying hiv123 i understand where ur coming from ...i got tested already and i am waiting on my results that i will get on monday ..for right i have chills and i feel slow...and exausted...fatigue and developed bumps through out my body which makes me concern on the risk i had
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im sorry i really am but u should try understanding my view with all due respect sir but a doctor told me theres a risk and the cdc says there is a risk and other doctors say there is no risk that i am confused and tomented by anxiety and symptoms ..i am sorry once again i do not mean to anger you.
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186166 tn?1385259382
"Kissing is no risk, even deep ("French") kissing and even with a person who sores on their mouth or has gum or dental disease."   DR HOOK

"Of course no risk. HIV is not transmitted by kissing, even with sores in the mouth.

Despite the billions of kissing events in the AIDS era, not one case of HIV has been known to be transmitted that way, even though millions of those kisses undoubtedly were with cuts in the mouth or on the lips."  
DR HANDSFIELD
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You have no risk at all. You don't have hiv, and never had a chance from this incident. Now if you had unprotected vaginal or anal sex before this then you had a risk of which you would need testing out to 3 months. Also sharing injection drugs with others is a risk that would need to be tested to 3 months.
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Seek professional mental help. It is 2013. You should know HIV is not transmitted by kissing, You username and your multiple posts are completely inappropriate for your situation. Get a grip.
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i have tried i also thank you for your time and i went to the cdc.com and they state there is a risk...im really scared ...im waiting for my one week results ?on monday i will get them
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yeah thanks mike for your time but the cdc states something else and i went to 2 doctors one said no risk and the other said risk ...i dont know what to do im really really scared ....im waiting for my results its been a week since incident ...should i test at 3 months if this one is negative?
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i want to believe and i thank u for your time but i went to 2 doctors one said no risk and the other said there is a risk and cdc says there is a risk as welll....please mentor me advice me thanks..mny anxiety is killing me im deeply scared
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i want to believe but why have i developed all these symptoms body pains and such i also have chills during the day ....i went to the doctor already and he said no risk ...then i went to get tested another clinic and the doctor said their is a minimal risk and then i read online at the cdc.com it states there is a risk ...i dont know what to do anymore ....someone please advice me ...i need a mentor...im having cold chills right now ....please someone
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The advise is to live your life the way you normally live. You can't acquire the virus in through kissing irrespective of your oral condition or discomforts. You never had a risk. Please read about HIV and it's transmission and move on.
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No risk from kissing. You are ok. If your unwell it is not hiv from the incident you describe.
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