I have more factors it seems, x had a rash in his arm pit,,,didnt bug me till now, I had a chancroid above private area, which also didnt seem like hiv till now,,,I know you cant diagnose with out test, but shingles and chancroid- which is connected to hiv too, seems I have in my mind...now what,,wait and go crazy....please let me know if this could be something else, all the info I can find seem s to be hiv only, shyphilis has different kind of ulcer, and no shingled..really want to be negative, but is hard to imagine now