rare exposure need help

[marriedinamonth]

I was with this lady, I believe she can be positive I know she is very promiscous and does not use condoms. I touched her breasts and nipples,  massaged them and after doing that I had all my hands greasy, I have two big cuts in my hands and fingers and I'm worried cause I cannot take a test since my marriage is in a month. Second exposure she touched herself and then inserted her hands into my pants ( I kept my underwear on) but my underwear had a lot of precum. Does vaginal fluids in contact with precum in my underwear can be considered an exposure ? I am worried for my soon to be thanks. If anybody believes i carried no risk please tell me why.

[tonyna]

A lot of children (negative) are fed from their mothers ( positive) breast milk  and the % of getting the infant infected is very low.
Do you think that by touching her breasts, even with milk,you will get infected? No way.
There is no way in the world that you will get infected by touching her breasts.
You don't get infected by fingering her. Think about it
Forget about it. You were not at risk.
Good luck in your marriage.

[marriedinamonth]

thanks a lot for your help. I forgot to post that maybe the greasy sensation in my hands was from breast milk. Do you think it's still safe ? If yes why? Thanks a lot again

[tonyna]

You were not at risk at all. 100% sure.
First touching her breast is safe, you had cuts or no. She has no way to get the virus on her skin. Don't ask, no way, it cannot survive outside its host and doesn't exist on the skin.
Second, Hand job is safe. You didn't even got one.
Your penis should be inside her and you have chance not to contract the virus. The virus is not infectious on her hand, plus it didn't touch your penis, you had your underwear on.
This is even not a case to discuss.
Don't worry, it is the guilt in your mind that is playing in your mind not HIV.
100% sure, zero risk