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risk assessment?? please help

hi i'm an uncircumcized man in his early 20's and 13 days ago I got very intoxicated and ordered a csw over. she performed fairly rough and deep protected oral sex on me for 5-7 minutes and I did not ejaculate. I felt some pain during this and upon later inspection noticed a minor abrasion near the corona of the head (this has happened in the past as well). i'm fairly certain the condom remained intact. after this was done, I was so drunk I forgot to take the condom off and simply just put my penis back in my pants, only remembering to pull the condom off about 5-10 minutes later. no cleaning occurred after this, and I promptly went to sleep. exactly one week after this exposure, my scrotum turned bright red and I felt a burning sensation in the back of my thighs and buttocks. it is now roughly 6 days from the time I first felt these symtoms and there are no visible lesions whatsoever on my body (i've been checking constantly). now what I am primarily feeling is a slight twinge  of discomfort in either armpit and a dull but noticeable ache in my right buttock. also a feeling as if my throat is closing and difficulty swallowing. was this a potential exposure to hiv? did leaving the condom on for an additional couple minutes pose any risk? no testing or medical examination has taken place thus far. your help is extraordinarily appreciated!
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no risk=no test
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No
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final question. fairly certain I contracted hsv2 from this oral exposure. would this increase my risk of having gotten hiv as well??
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No
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so the fluid that came off the condom onto the inside of my boxers posed no threat to me while I slept even with the abrasion on my penis?
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No
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thanks for your quick response. so mistakenly leaving the condom on for that additional amount of time posed no risk from fluid on the outside coming into contact with my body? also I know this is the hiv forum but do you by chance know if herpes could possibly have been transmitted through the saliva on the outside of the condom making contact with me as well?
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You had no unprotected penetration so you had no risk.
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