risk by rubbing genitals with ejaculation on the vulva

[sol122]

There is a risk of contracting hiv by rubbing genitals on vulva with ejaculation and my fluids without penetration? I am a woman. Was 4 times we did that. And I do not showered last 12 hours. I had underwear but I guess the sperm transfer and came to my fluids
Surely the man had the virus.

I make a elisa 38 days after the last relationship. Thank GOD negative.
How reliable are my results?
When you are 100% safe?
Sorry my English and thank you very much-

[Waqar007]

Hiv not be transmitted by outer area.its need to be certaiin condition like penetrated vaginal or anal intercourse.

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

This thread is more than five years old.  I am certain the original poster has now resolved their concerns.

[sonram]

I am a man with siimilar situation i.e.experienced penis to vagina rubbing. You just said there are cells in urethra which are receptive of HIV. So is this a risk for a male in that case if there are no clothes and there might be some exchange of fluid during genital rubbing. Please answer as I am really worried about this.

[sol122]

I can be quiet?

[zamzam4]

I have already told you that this type if situation is not a risk. There are very few cells that are receptive to HIV in the body, they are primarily in the urethra, the cervix and the tonsils (bizzarely).  You have not had a risk, you do not need to be nervous.  

In addition EVEN IF he did ejaculate the outside of your vagina with underwear on there is no way at all that HIV would make it all the way up inot your cervix to infect, it is very , very fragile and the most minor changes in environment will damamge it, that includes your pants.! Move on x

[Vance2335]

How many times do we have to say it for you to believe us? You said you had underwear on, HIV is fragile and is not going to even make it through the underwear.

[sol122]

thank you very much for your answers.
I have one last question: I thought that was transmitted when a fluid came into contact with a mucosal and vulva mucosa is an absorbing.
is this true or not?
because it seems my case..

thank you very mach for your time and sorry for my English

[Vance2335]

No, penetration is risk, not rubbing.

[sol122]

excuse my ignorance, but not the exchange of fluids resulting in the spread? And I'm sure that there was exchange of fluids because I was very wet

[zamzam4]

If you are anxious test at 6 weeks for a very good indication and then at 12 weeks for conclusive BUT frottage is not a risk and this is what has happened in your situation.

[sol122]

Are you sure? i very very nervous and sad...
When the elisa is definitive?

thank you very much

[zamzam4]

This is not a risk.

The cells that HIV an latch on to are high up in the cervix not on the outside of the vagina.

HIV is fragile and would not survive on this situation.