my girlfriend informed me in november that she has tested positive for herpes. since then her periods are irregular and she has had several yeast infections. this has scared me to death, thinking that i might have hiv. i have had no symtoms (flu like, dry cough, etc) to date. Although the last year i have had severe muscle aches throughtout my body each day and now within the last week my hands and feet hurt pretty bad. anxiety is about to run me crazy. can someone tell me the chances are of me having hiv?