stupidity, risk?

[slapmesilly]

Hi, is this a risk for HIV: I have received unprotected oral sex from 2 different guys a few times each, French kissed them and a few other guys a couple of times each, sat on aguy's penis(which was covered by his underwear, which had a wet spot from his semen), and I had no underwear when I sat on it and after I got up, I felt wet around my inner thighs and buttocks; I kissed the shaft of a guy's penis without a barrier(gave him 2 quick pecks), and his penis felt dry when I kissed it and so did my lips after I did it, and I had fingering and mutual masturbation and got some semen on my index finger and wiped most, if not all, of the semen on his shirt(but I didn't see it either), and then i touched my inner labia(labia minora) with that same finger(it might have still been a bit moist from what i felt of it), and I also had an incident with him where I might have had some of his semen on my fingers and DIRECTLY touched my inner labia(labia minora).  I got a hickie(which left a red mark on me), and touched a guy's penis(which seemed moist) and then touched a one day old open cut on my lower lip, and he rubbed his own penis(which might have been a bit moist from his semen, then he touched my genitals a few seconds later. I didn't see ANY visible fluid on his finger, but I'm concerned. Am I at risk for HIV? I had this happen. Is this risky for HIV, ANY of it? Why or why not? testing needed?

[ricky_id]

.....FYI, I'm speaking about it, assuming one or all of the partners you mentioned above had got HIV

[ricky_id]

You've msged me with exactly the same wording. I'm one of the most conservative users here, yet I would say that you may not want to take a test because your chance of catching HIV is really, if not extremely, small. You may want to take a test if we don't make it to assure you, but that would be a waste of time and money. If you happen to get symptoms, it is more likely that they come out of fear rather than the disease itself.

[NickOne7]

You have emailed me about this many times and always get the same answers. They will not change. You never had a risk

Stop worring

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.

[slapmesilly]

What are you saying?

[NickOne7]

NO

Kindly Move along

[slapmesilly]

Will it make a difference how many times he went down on me? Will I be more likely to get it if he went down on me 4 times, instead of 2?

[Teak]

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[slapmesilly]

Wasn't y original post deleted? Also, do u agree with the others that I am NOT at risk for HIV?

[Vance2335]

Because you did not have unprotected vaginal or anal sex.

[slapmesilly]

Why am I not at risk?

[slapmesilly]

I gotcha. Why did u refer to me as a 'he?' I'm, a she

[Teak]

That's what happens when you get people on here doing assessments and they have no background in HIV transmission or testing. You didn't have a risk and don't need testing.

[slapmesilly]

So what I did was NOT risky for HIV, NONE of it? What is thanksforreply saying?

[Vance2335]

It is not a risk.

[slapmesilly]

so you DO NOT think I was at risk NOR need testing for HIV, correct?

[slapmesilly]

I think thanklsforreply said I do NTO have a risk for HIV. Are you changing your mind about my risk?

[Teak]

Stop giving incorrect information. He doesn't need an HIV test he was never at risk of contracting HIV.

[Thanksforreply]

Hiv is passed through body fluids like blood or semen or vaginal fluids but its in too little concentration in saliva to actually contract the disease...
I dont think you even need testing ...
if anxiety persists get an 8 weeks test ...
pretty sure its gonna be negative...
id reckon you forgive yourself and move on ....

[slapmesilly]

Why does CDC say this is a risk?

[Teak]

You never had a risk of contracting HIV in the situations you've provided.