i just have chat with my friend who is HIV+, i knew him for almost one yer. he was infected by unprotected sex , but was only single event made him sick. even his doctor said he won a lotto.
He is a nice person told me that symptoms means nothing except the final blood test. he said, he was very sick during ARS, his ARS occur on 3 weeks after sex. he went to hosipital for an intensive care , the duration of sick was 2 weeks, he got high fever something like 40. and rash on his body, but without any sore throat. now his blood test shows CD4+ is 500, and no med required. i am so happy that he got a nice result and still being very healthy.
everyone has different symptom during ARS, it is ture that the symptoms kinda mild or very serious.
actually we need more support from the emotional care.