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unprotected oral from hiv infected person..

Hi I hope I can get some advise from medhelp. 5 days ago I was realy intoxicated and I received a blow job from a street sex worker. Drug addict to. We both were intoxicated and I had a blow job for maybe 20 min. When I noticed blood on my penis I stop.. She later confess she was hiv positive.i usuly dont do that. I have a beautiful one year baby and a wife I love. but I was out drinking with a friend and he got me into that while I was way to intoxicated. I guess I shouldnt blame no one from my actions but that what it is..we are out of town worker and I screwed up.actualy its first time I ever cheat on her . I love her and I regret it. 5 days later I have diarhea.. Dry mouth and abdominal cramps.those cramps are on and off since day 3.iam pretty sure I got hiv from her since the blood.and I have herpes from 10 years ago so everything is against me. Any advise?
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You don't you just move along.
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How do you delete posts?
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Today I did a duo test at 30 days. I guess we will see if realy I will contract hiv from receiving oral sex.i had more symptoms like flu like symptoms at 3 weeks and half. Body rash and sore troat.tireness. And this is the ONLY exposure so when I will get my positive result I will warn peoples about oral sex as well.il post my results soon.
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Recognizing that the symptoms that you are experiencing are due to anxiety rather than HIV is a first step in getting better. Below is a list of common symptoms of anxiety. More detailed information can be found in the link to the source page:

http://www.npadnews.com/anxiety-symptoms.asp

Anxiety Symptoms

    * Smothering sensations and Shortness of breath
    * Racing heart, slow heart beat, palpitations
    * Chest Pain
    * Lump in throat & Difficulty swallowing
    * Skin losing colour (blanching)
    * Sweating
    * Shaking or shivering (Visibly or internally)
    * Neck & shoulder pain & numbness in face or head
    * Rapid gastric emptying
    * Indigestion, heartburn, constipation and diarrhea
    * Symptoms of urinary tract infection
    * Skin rashes
    * Weakness in arms & tingling in the hands or feet
    * Electric shock feeling anywhere in the body
    * Dry mouth
    * Insomnia
    * Nightmares
    * Fears of going mad or losing control
    * Increased depression & suicidal feelings
    * Aggression
    * Symptoms like 'flu'
    * Distorted vision
    * Disturbed hearing
    * Hormone problems
    * Headaches & feelings of having a tight band around head
    * Sore eyes
    * Agoraphobia
    * Hallucinations
    * Creeping or pins and needles sensations in the skin
    * Increased sensitivity to light, sound, touch, and smell
    * Hyperactivity
    * Dramatic increase in sexual feelings
    * Pain in the face or jaw that resembles a toothache
    * Derealisation and depersonalisation
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Do you have a comprehension problem? You never had an exposure.
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WHAT WOULD BE THE ACCURACY OF 2 WEEK DUO TEST?
Iam freaking out. I always tough oral was no risk for hiv. Now I think there is some for sure. And it is dangerous to state on all those forums that there is no risks.next thing you know people like me will go and infect their wife and family.and lose everything.now its been 15 days and I still have abdominal cramps.  I still have a rash on my wrist.i have some swelling under my arms pits.   SORE TROAT canker sore.headcake.it make no doubt I catch hiv from it.since she was positive anyway. Maybe its time to start telling peoples what realy the risks are because I sure are sick right now.because I believe sites like medhelp I decided not to worry about protection. Its wrong. And in a few weeks I will pay the full price for it.
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What about my question
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HIV isn't transmitted by oral sex.

by Emily_MHModerator,
And to clarify, it is this site's stance, based on studies and our own MedHelp experts (all of whom are world-renowned for their work in this field), that oral sex carries no risk for HIV.  
Emily
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If you have a question start your own thread.
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HI rain lover, I'm so intrested about the story of that porn star but my English is weak, can you tell it in other way? Is she infected because of oral sexes? Please answer me.
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Anyway does abdominal cramp and dry mouth and gums can be sign of a begining of acute hiv . Could it come alone and soon after the other symptoms? Or could it be only that as acute hiv?
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Reread all the replies that you have been given.
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I think if I wouldnt of see blood I wouldnt be so worry. its that part that I dont understand since I always tough that you can catch hiv from blood. I just try to.understand how its not possible since the blood could of get into the hole of my penis. I just want to understand so I can put this behind me that all.i guesa I will stop posted. And come back with updates in 3 weeks
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What part of what you've been told about oral sex is it you're not comprehending?
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Then what happen?
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I just want to know what happen if her blood got into my penis hole
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Iam almost conviced I have hiv from her. I have constant abdominal pain and headack and nausea. All this 5 days after exposure. I never had that before so severe. I dont think.its coincidence. I will test duo test at 30 days. And when if I realy test positive wich I think I wil it will warn peoples about oral sex
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That what actualy worry me.   I didnt have any cuts on my penis . But what if the blood get into my hole.?
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What if her blood that was in her mouth got into my uretha? Would that be a way to hiv to   infect me?
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Reread what you have been told.
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