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unprotected oral sex with ejaculation
Hi all,
I'm a gay male. After my last negative result, I became obsessed about safe sex. Regardless, I had a few encounters where there was unprotected oral sex. In most cases I was the insertive partner and they were brief moments. In one of those cases I was the receptive partner, but it was condom protected.
I've also been seeing this guy who's promiscuous and likes to have semen in his mouth. I've been with him three times. The first time it was unprotected sex and protected anal sex, no ejaculation during penetration and where I was the insertive partner in both cases. The second and third time it was unprotected oral sex with ejaculation. I broke up with him, after knowing about his multiple partners and the fact that the HIV rates in my country has risen in the first four months of this year which made me scared.
This guy swears he always practices safe sex and that he tests regularly. The last time he told me he was still waiting for his test results, but he told me there was nothing to worry.
My question is: what's my risk with those previous encounters, considering I was the insertive partner when it was unprotected oral sex and the receptive partner when it was condom protected? what's my risk with my promiscuous partner when it was unprotected oral sex with ejaculation and condom protected anal?
Thank you for your time.
Have a great day.
I'm a gay male. After my last negative result, I became obsessed about safe sex. Regardless, I had a few encounters where there was unprotected oral sex. In most cases I was the insertive partner and they were brief moments. In one of those cases I was the receptive partner, but it was condom protected.
I've also been seeing this guy who's promiscuous and likes to have semen in his mouth. I've been with him three times. The first time it was unprotected sex and protected anal sex, no ejaculation during penetration and where I was the insertive partner in both cases. The second and third time it was unprotected oral sex with ejaculation. I broke up with him, after knowing about his multiple partners and the fact that the HIV rates in my country has risen in the first four months of this year which made me scared.
This guy swears he always practices safe sex and that he tests regularly. The last time he told me he was still waiting for his test results, but he told me there was nothing to worry.
My question is: what's my risk with those previous encounters, considering I was the insertive partner when it was unprotected oral sex and the receptive partner when it was condom protected? what's my risk with my promiscuous partner when it was unprotected oral sex with ejaculation and condom protected anal?
Thank you for your time.
Have a great day.
Kirstie_MHModerator Feb 06, 2014
We can't tell you what to believe, but we can tell you that our forums aren't a venue for debate over our stance that oral sex carries no risk for HIV. Our stance will not change unless we receive definitive scientific evidence to the contrary.
We can't tell you what to believe, but we can tell you that our forums aren't a venue for debate over our stance that oral sex carries no risk for HIV. Our stance will not change unless we receive definitive scientific evidence to the contrary.
I want to do the test anyways, since I've been active and for peace of mind.
I have elevated liver enzymes due to alcohol-induced fatty liver (I've been tested for Hep B and Hep C, both negative). Do the elevated liver enzymes affect the accuracy of the HIV test?
I have elevated liver enzymes due to alcohol-induced fatty liver (I've been tested for Hep B and Hep C, both negative). Do the elevated liver enzymes affect the accuracy of the HIV test?
LOL, look at my use of language. My last negative result was about a year post exposure. After that I was obsessed with safe sex, except for those oral sex encounters. The first time I had sex with that guy, I used condoms.
Thank you for your reply.
Thank you for your reply.
I'm sorry about that, English is not my first language. No, I didn't have unprotected anal sex. It was protected.
Your post is a bit hard to follow.
It sounds like you had unprotected anal sex? If so, your risk is significant and you'll need to test. A DUO test at 4-6 weeks post exposure will be a very good indication of your status. We recommend following up at 3 months with a standard antibody test for a definitive result.
None of the oral sex encounters are a concern, no risk and no need to test based on those.
It sounds like you had unprotected anal sex? If so, your risk is significant and you'll need to test. A DUO test at 4-6 weeks post exposure will be a very good indication of your status. We recommend following up at 3 months with a standard antibody test for a definitive result.
None of the oral sex encounters are a concern, no risk and no need to test based on those.
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